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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-01-31 03:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #3315 ]


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(Anonymous) 2016-01-31 08:51 pm (UTC)(link)
why though.

the only ones who care this much about your gender is you and resident radfem.

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-31 08:53 pm (UTC)(link)
1) That is stupid to think.
2) I can't wait for trolls to explain to you why you don't belong on here.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-31 08:54 pm (UTC)(link)
You belooooong!

It's my default image that everyone here minus two named users is a woman, but I'd love to have that image changed. Yay for men in stereotypically female-dominated fandom spaces!

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[personal profile] badass_tiger 2016-01-31 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Who really 'fits in' on f!s though? Getting dogpiled for an opinion is basically a rite of passage around here. I've been here since it was hosted on LJ and I don't feel like I fit in on f!s either.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-31 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Don't worry about it! As long as you're unemployed and have severe social anxiety, you'll fit in fine!

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-31 08:58 pm (UTC)(link)
No one gives a shit except that one radfem anon.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-31 09:03 pm (UTC)(link)
I do want to say that I'm not entirely sure that the only one who cares about gender is radfem. I think that radfem is the only one who explicitly cares about gender but I think there are times that the comm's general mindset is very much weighted that way, and I think there are times it results in unconscious judgments, assumptions, double standards, etc.

I mean it's still a silly complaint, because there's not anything like hostility, and dealing with being in a place where you're not in the majority is just something you have to learn in life (and certainly one could make some well-taken points about the patriarchy here). But I don't think OP is totally off their rocker, you know?

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-31 09:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Dude, I don't think gender matters two bits to the people on here.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-01-31 09:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, you're not the only one. And that's from named users we know.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-31 09:15 pm (UTC)(link)
you are correct :)

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[personal profile] nanslice 2016-01-31 09:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Uh. This place seems pretty friendly towards dudes.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-31 09:29 pm (UTC)(link)
D'awww. The battle rages on and all of that poetic shite. (Or you can focus on other interests, like.)

(Anonymous) 2016-01-31 09:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey radfem sock puppet

OP

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[personal profile] aenrhien 2016-01-31 09:49 pm (UTC)(link)
There are a few of us hanging around here though.

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(Anonymous) 2016-01-31 10:14 pm (UTC)(link)
That's just silly OP. Don't let "feminist" trolls scare you away.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-31 10:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Why? There are men on FS already, after all, and a user's gender isn't always obvious unless you want it to be. Or is it merely being in the minority that makes you feel weird?

(Anonymous) 2016-01-31 10:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Everyone is welcome here. Just don't be an asshole. That's all we ask and if you do then be prepared to get called on it.
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[personal profile] elaminator 2016-01-31 10:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Tbh I feel like the majority of us don't care what gender you are, and we won't even know if you don't feel like telling us. (Though we have more than a few guys around already, and a few more won't hurt!)

There might be a few people who aren't so welcoming, but people who disapprove (for whatever reason) aren't exactly few and far between on the internet.

You shouldn't worry too much about it.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-31 11:01 pm (UTC)(link)
huh. f!s is the only online community I frequent that has quite a few visible male members.
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[personal profile] eyeshine72 2016-01-31 11:05 pm (UTC)(link)
I thought there were plenty of guys on here.

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2016-01-31 11:13 pm (UTC)(link)
But why tho?

Come to my arms, OP. I will protect you from the scary women.

You are not alone.

(Anonymous) 2016-01-31 11:51 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm a man! I post anon a lot, but I am.

Re: You are not alone.

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(Anonymous) 2016-02-01 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
I thought most people here were men tbh

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(Anonymous) 2016-02-01 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
The thing is, spaces these days are either hostile towards men or hostile towards women. Now I do think F!S is very moderate, but I can see why certain types of men might not feel welcomed here, so yeah, maybe we are marginally more hostile towards men than women. But given the options, I think we are making the right choice. If we have to let the pressures weigh against one group or the other, I think it will be remembered by our members that we made the right call.

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