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It isn't the same. The guys who like dick who are straight like it in a they love themselves and being male and their own sex organ sort of way. Whereas women are more likely to self hate and to dislike their bodies.

I don't think that's it.

I literally can't see my vagina. I more or less have no idea what it looks like down there. And I masturbate a lot.

Guys see their dicks on a regular basis, why shouldn't they have more attachment and interest in them?

+1

so much for self-loathing...

How is this not gender stereotyping?

I didn't say all men and women and I didn't say it was inherent. But a lot of socialization tells men their dicks are awesome and makes them better than those without dicks. And a lot of socialization tells women their bodies are/should be hot except for their sex organs which are kind of icky and they shouldn't like that part of their body. And many men and women buy into that.

nayrt but while I agree that the penis has a history of being a power symbol, I don't think society worships all dicks. There's a huge thing about long dicks being good, short dicks being bad. A lot of guys are really insecure about their dicks if they think they aren't long enough.

And I'm not sure the vagina has an image of being "icky" so much as it's a less familiar thing?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X_a_yfWlgaE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kHmeKXMq9y0

Edited 2016-03-24 01:07 (UTC)

As a dick haver, I would say that I feel society is constantly telling me my dick is not good enough. It tells me my dick "Should" be an icon of power, not that it is, and if you're not a big badass pussy-crushing alpha-dominating badass of a man, its because you have a small and inefficient dick and you need to get status symbols to cover it up or women will never look at you like they look at real men.

and you don't see how that is sexist against women?

AYRT didn't say it wasn't??

They're not arguing against it being sexist against women, they're arguing against the idea that men are taught to love their dicks.

What fantasy world do you live in?

That's just not the way the world works, and I think you might actually have some serious mental problems if this is what you think society is telling you.

Uh, as a vagina-haver, that sounds about right to me. It's not all of society but it's a very vocal component. So many men think the size of their dick is part of their self-worth and they're very vocal about it. Women don't help either - when guys and gals get into an argument, especially if it's about gender, it's never surprising for a woman to insult him by telling him he must have a small dick. It's kind of funny if the thing they're arguing about is dicks, of course (like the guy telling all the women around that they obviously want to ride his huge cock and if they say they don't they don't really know what they want) but otherwise it's just out of the blue and reinforcing this message.

What he's saying would be absolutely if he were talking about women's sex organs and the way people treat them. It's just not the case for male organs.

A penis is inherently a good thing to have, even the worst penis is still held up as a symbol of greatness. It's not that society is telling him his dick isn't good enough, its that he wants his dick to be better than every male around him. Just like every other male. What they have isn't good enough if someone anywhere has better. It's a primitive pissing contest and he wants sympathy for how he isn't winning it, when women are talking about how they legitimately suffer with how society treats their bodies?

So what you're saying is that because society is sexist it means that the stupid standards men hold up for each other no longer count as bad because women, on average, have it worse?

It...it kind of is, though? Men are taught their self-worth is tied to their dicks, but they're also taught only certain dicks are good. Why do you think so many guys have complexes about the size and shape of their penises?

Once in awhile, when I get really drunk, I fucking scream at my vagina.

nsfw comic art: Gaze upon the twisted monstrosity!

http://oglaf.com/weirdwoman/

There is a... surprisingly large population of men who identify as straight, but who absolutely have a sexual attraction to dick, in a way that's completely distinct from enjoying your own sexual organ. Like, I'm talking about detailed fantasies about sucking cock, that kind of thing.

Now, I'm *pretty sure* that these men are basically just bisexual, and the reason that they don't identify that way is because of socialization (I generally get the sense that it's somewhat easier for women to identify as bisexual than men). But I haven't done any research on that. Just the sense that I get.

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