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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-03-24 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #3368 ]


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How are you sexually dysfunctional?

(Anonymous) 2016-03-24 11:23 pm (UTC)(link)
In honor of secret 12. Air your secret or not so secret sexual shame, anon or un-anon. Others hopefully will either make you feel less alone or offer advice.

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-24 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
PIV sex is super painful to me. The longest I've gone through with it would probably be about 5 minutes (of gentle, trying-not-to-hurt-me thrusts) before I had to stop and cry because of the pain. FML.

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-24 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
You could have vaginismus? Also, I would focus on non-PIV forms of sex, because trust me, they are super fun.

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-25 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
I'f you're not my GF, I feel super bad for you. If you are my GF, You never told me it made you cry. If you're my GF I feel super bad in general.

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-24 11:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm a 40-year-old virgin.

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-24 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, you're just inexperienced, not dysfunctional!

How do you feel about your virginal status?

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-24 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
I think about sex quite frequently, but imagining it is usually enough to satisfy me. I don't need to masturbate or have actual sex. My partner thinks my sex drive is low and well, not sure that's entirely true. I just prefer thinking about it than actually doing it.

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-24 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Sex is painful for me, even touching myself or wearing tampons is painful. I can't get pap smears or even examinations done because just simple touching is painful.

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-24 11:42 pm (UTC)(link)
My sex drive is apparently higher then everyone I know and I'm honestly uncomfortable with that fact.

Also its not exactly a dysfunction but I am quite short (under 5ft tall) and certain positions are kinda difficult for me?

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-24 11:45 pm (UTC)(link)
I wonder if every female who enjoys masturbating does it with penetration, because I've never put anything in there. For me it's enough with rubbing on the outside, I don't even dare to do put in my fingers.

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-24 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Horny as hell, but will never act upon it :(

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-24 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't mind sex but I don't find anyone attractive.

It sounds nice to be able to find someone attractive.

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-24 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I think I had a traumatic sexual experience, I guess? maybe? for an entire year or so after it happened, I couldn't experience general arousal without it being accompanied by pain. it made masturbating difficult.

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-24 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm female and feel like I'd never be comfortable having sex with a man because of the "role" women are usually supposed to have (passive, submissive, "bottom," just having to be more feminine than my partner, etc.). I know someone will say there are guys who don't want those roles, but I don't think there are very many of them, and even most of the guys I've met who aren't really macho or dominant seem fairly masculine, which is a big turn-off.

I'm also not sure that, even if I could find someone who I would want to be with, that I could stop feeling like it was... doing it wrong, or fake, or something, and I'm just being stupid for even wanting that type of relationship. I've just read too many arguments for why women should be like this and men should be like that, that even fantasizing makes me feel like an idiot. And I'm not sure I could get over feeling like an inadequate partner, like why would someone who doesn't want the typical "masculine" role in a relationship even want to be with me and not an actual male?

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-24 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I find my partner very attractive. I love the idea of having sex with him. I love all the physical affection leading up to sex. I can't handle the pain when he's inside me. And it's messing us both up. If we do try to have sex and he ends up hurting me he feels really bad about it. If we don't have sex, he feels like I'm not attracted to him. It sucks. I hate that my health problems are taking everything from me.

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[personal profile] feotakahari 2016-03-24 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I can't stand to be touched. Even hugs are uncomfortable for me.

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-25 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
I cant reach orgasm with anyone else. Blow jobs, hand jobs, and PIV just don't work.

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-25 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
I have a pretty high libido, but I've never been able to orgasm in my life. It gets very frustrating, but at least the ride is fun.
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[personal profile] philstar22 2016-03-25 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
I have a super high sex drive and yet sex is painful for me. So I make do with fantasies.

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-25 01:13 am (UTC)(link)
I always masturbate through my clothes. Touching myself directly doesn't feel good.

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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-03-25 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
I guess I'm kinkier than average? But like physically, I'm mostly fine. I just don't really like my nipples touched. It's unpleasant.

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-25 03:36 am (UTC)(link)
Sex is painful for me unless I use a LOT of lube.

(It took me years to figure this out; I thought I was psychologically "broken" because I was molested as a child.)

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-25 04:10 am (UTC)(link)
I really can't tell if I've never really reached orgasm or if I have and have just been expecting way more than I got.

Young/inexperienced and also kind of depressed so I don't even know.

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
I'm happy I'm getting laid regularly but it takes so long for him to come, it's absurd. Kind of wish I could just give him a quick blow job every now and then but it takes forever - last time, I was at it so long it kind of messed up my jaw.

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(Anonymous) 2016-03-26 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
I am not a virgin but I haven't had sex with another person in decades.