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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2008-03-14 06:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #433 ]


⌈ Secret Post #433 ⌋

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 80 secrets from Secret Submission Post #062.
Secrets Not Posted: 0 broken links, [ 1 2 3 4 5 ] not!secrets, [ 1 2 ] not!fandom, [ 1 2 3 ] too big, [ 1 2 ] repeat, [ 1 ] personal attack.
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

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[identity profile] teleute12.livejournal.com 2008-03-13 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, I'm honestly sorry that whatever happened to you at CFUD was so upsetting. No one deserves to have been made so angry and unhappy by a pretendy fun time game. But - doesn't commenting here bring up all those feelings again? It seems to me it'd make you feel better sooner to just go do something else when you see a CFUD secret that upsets you, instead of drawing out the feelings by baiting people in the comments. Sorry again.

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(Anonymous) 2008-03-14 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
I'm still in CFUD, so no, this is not a butthurt former player. I *have* fun at CFUD, but only by playing with a very small, limited group of people - which means I play maybe 1/10th as much as the average CFUDer. But I *prefer* it that way because it means I don't have to deal with the majority of total asstards who keep attacking other players right, left and center.

I've subtly tried to change people's behavior or at least make them consider other peoples' feelings, but it's all fruitless because the offenders just keep reinforcing themselves in their atrocious behavior. It'd be nice if the mods interfered and put their feet down, but as I've said before - they're among the worst offenders.

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(Anonymous) 2008-03-14 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
Sooo you hate everyone in the game but stay there and wank in fandomsecrets?

Have you considered taking up stamp-collecting? Crochet? Baking?

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(Anonymous) 2008-03-14 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
I don't hate everyone. I do play with some people, after all, but they've proven to be actual decent human beings... whereas five times as many people have worked themselves onto my total shit list. I'm very patient, so for them to end up there took a lot of work on their part. That's how CFUD is, unfortunately. For every nice person you get ten utter assholes.

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(Anonymous) 2008-03-14 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
. . . To be honest I don't know what to say to you! I'm in CFUD myself, and I don't try to pretend we don't have problems (we do) and I don't pretend everyone loves me (they don't), but I've ... largely, seen a way higher number of intelligent and nice people on CFUD than I've seen irritating dumbasses. Maybe CFUD doesn't attract the kind of people you connect with.

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(Anonymous) 2008-03-14 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
So if you're part fo the playerbase, I guess that means you're all the things you're accusing everyone else as being. And if you're so bitter and hate everyone, why not just leave?

I don't even RP there or particularly like it, but come on. This is hitting all the points of the "how to troll succesfully" list, so I'm having trouble taking you seriously.

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(Anonymous) 2008-03-14 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
Well, you're not in it - you can't know how hard it is to leave. In a way, they're like some sort of demented sect.

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(Anonymous) 2008-03-14 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
You make a post and say you're dropping. It's not rocket science.

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[identity profile] hentai-satsuki.livejournal.com 2008-03-14 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah uh, I'm sorry you feel that way, but considering the amount of bitterness and hatred that's shining through . . . maybe you might wanna take a step back or step down. You may have fun at CFUD, but if you're that pissed off at it . . . frankly, I wouldn't want to play with someone who had such a hatred for the game.

Yeah, CFUD isn't perfect but it's just like any other place on the Internet. And for every person who IS "a total asstard" we have two who are some of the sweetest people I've ever met.

And really? I LOVE the mods and they think they do a fantastic job for oh, being human.

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(Anonymous) 2008-03-14 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, we've played. It's been a while since your current characters aren't exactly people my current characters would interact with, but we've played quite a chunk. I've really enjoyed playing with you, too, because I think you're one of the best and most human people in CFUD, period.

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[identity profile] labellesansbra.livejournal.com 2008-03-14 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
.... well. thank you? I WAS NOT EXPECTING THAT but seriously honey. sweetie. uh, I have no idea who you are, but having that much bitterness toward any group of people in CFUD (or anywhere) is not really healthy in the long run! I know, I've been there. And it sucks and hurts and DOES alienate people. :|b

ZEN OUT, drink some tea, go play some games or you know, talk to someone? Which I'm sure you already do.

and in case you're interested, we just posted another discussion post, in case any of your concerns are things that CAN be brought up there.

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(Anonymous) 2008-03-14 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
I was thinking of picking up a more approachable character to be able to play with you again, actually! I really miss playing with you D:

Well, the thing is... I'm afraid to put up a hiatus notice. You can probably guess why. And just vanishing for a week or two to get into touch with myself or similar stuff just doesn't seem too fair to the people who I'm playing with.

I'd just get the same accusations of being a dirty liar over there as well, so I'd rather leave it at this. Just look at this thread - I admit I wasn't particularly diplomatic, but the reactions are exactly the things I'm criticizing in the first place :/

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(Anonymous) 2008-03-14 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
Man, you're a class act.

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[identity profile] hydr0phobia.livejournal.com 2008-03-14 12:09 am (UTC)(link)
Get a job!

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[identity profile] therikkster.livejournal.com 2008-03-14 12:10 am (UTC)(link)
Ignoring the fact that playing with a small, limited group of people goes against what cfud is about and the fact that your idea of leading by example seems to be calling everyone brainwashed, lying bullies...

Do you speak up about it when you see it? Or is your idea of 'subtle influence' sitting in silence and getting passive aggressive on people who don't even know they're upsetting you?

The only one displaying atrocious behavior here is you.

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(Anonymous) 2008-03-14 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
Well, the thing is - when I tried to speak up in a public post, my regular journal and email got hit with a staggering amount of anonymous comments full of vitriol and porn spam. And when I disabled anonymous comments on my regular journal, they went to doing the same on my RP journals. I've mailed the mods about it and tried to talk to them about it on IRC (which I loathe, so being forced to it felt like being put in a thumb screw) and got thoroughly and entirely ignored.

What does that tell you?

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(Anonymous) 2008-03-14 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
That you're a liar?

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[identity profile] hydr0phobia.livejournal.com 2008-03-14 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
SOMEONE IS RINGING THE BULLSHIT BELL

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[identity profile] therikkster.livejournal.com 2008-03-14 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
You say you've got emails, public post spam and rp journal spam. Show us some of it.

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[identity profile] crystaldawn.livejournal.com 2008-03-14 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
Ignoring the fact that playing with a small, limited group of people goes against what cfud is about

I don't think that's necessarily true. RANDOM TWO CENTS lol. It's a big enough game that, as long as you're treating people alright, there's no obligation to play with a certain amount of people.

It's all about comfort levels.

(wasn't gonna reply further to this thread, but really felt compelled to say something there)

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[identity profile] teleute12.livejournal.com 2008-03-14 12:12 am (UTC)(link)
Ahh... wow, I'm really sorry to hear that.

Have you considered that maybe you're being too subtle? I know that I need a clue-by-four to the head to get the message, sometimes! XD Maybe you could bring up some of your concerns at the next concrit general discussions post - people might be more willing to listen there than here in the comments of fandom_secrets.

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(Anonymous) 2008-03-14 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, I've stopped caring at this point, but I must admit I am loling at the self-fulfilling prophecy.

Apparently if you talk shit about people in public, they get angry? WHO KNEW?

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(Anonymous) 2008-03-14 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
Well, I've never anon'd to this day but got similar reactions, so I think you're not entirely right!

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(Anonymous) 2008-03-14 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
...Okay, at this point I have to admit I'm feeling for you.

Anyway, if you honestly believe you are surrounded by bitches, leave. That isn't trying to be mean, but it does sound like you're unhappy over something you can control. I'm sorry people have been nasty towards you, and what you've told about sounds really gross overall. I hope that no matter what you do, things turn out well.

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REMEMBER KIDS

[identity profile] officialbizness.livejournal.com 2008-03-14 02:08 am (UTC)(link)
NEVER TALK TO ANY OF THE MODS ABOUT ANYTHING. It's not like I care about what happens in the game I've had a hand in for the past three years, no, nevar.

Chances are, I'll want to listen. If you'd like to ever PM or email me, I'm here, even if I am exceptionally a bit slow about it. I only ask that you please understand that I cannot and will not hide any complaint purposely from my co-mods, but I will gladly keep your identity under wraps in the interest of helping every last bit of my player base, girl scout promise.