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Re: Now for something different
(Anonymous) 2016-05-20 01:15 am (UTC)(link)Yet we seem to be the only country who has freakouts over cultural appropriation.
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Then again, (and I'm drawing this from conversations I've seen my friends have with Europeans), many of them consider the Americans extremely racist in terms of your categorization of race, and the fact that you systematically categorize people by race, and that people will start telling you what percentage of what type of blood they are.
Re: Now for something different
To put it another way, there's a joke I heard a long time ago. Two guys from Saudi Arabia move to the US with their families. They're all dressed in the traditional clothing, complete with the checkered keffiyahs and the stuff. As they're to be situated on opposite sides of the state, they make an agreement to meet in one year to decide who has assimilated better.
One year later, they meet. One of them says, "Well, I'm feeling pretty American. I just dropped off my daughter at softball practice and I'm gonna pick up some beers for the big game tonight. The wife's got a big steak dinner planned! We even went hunting last month and tomorrow we're gonna go watch a monster truck rally! What about you?"
The other one takes one look at him and says, "Shut up, raghead!"
Re: Now for something different
I do think that to some extent, all countries demand that immigrants subsume their own culture. The whole structure of "multiculturalism" is a fraught one, and as long as nation-states remain the basis for countries, there will have to be a measure of society building. tbh, I'm not sure where we'll go from the nation-state; a bunch of the most outspoken opponents of it seem to be in the liberal American academia, and ironically, they have the cultural heft not to even notice how powerfully they export their own culture and yet see themselves as "transcending" their nationality (also, notice that the US hasn't actually had its mainland threatened in a while... undisputed borders are a luxury).
That joke definitely drives the point home, though.
(I like how your numbering is A, 2, D :P)
Re: Now for something different
Everyone where I live sort of comes out knowing a bit about India, a bit about China, a bit about Korea, a bit about Japan, a bit about France, a bit about Native culture... etc. It's not weird to have symbols or participate because we all sort of do it.
Re: Now for something different
(Anonymous) 2016-05-20 04:15 am (UTC)(link)Re: Now for something different
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(Anonymous) 2016-05-20 04:25 am (UTC)(link)Re: Now for something different
Now let's all play the who's more privileged than who game. Fun for the whole family.
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(Anonymous) 2016-05-20 04:31 am (UTC)(link)Re: Now for something different
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(Anonymous) 2016-05-20 06:00 pm (UTC)(link)Re: Now for something different
Also, you live in a city--that is far different from rural Canada--and I say that as a rural East coaster. Unless we teach it in the schools the majority white (supposedly Christian) population around here would have no idea about other cultures. Yes, it is very slowly changing...but in my school of over 400 kids we have maybe 5 or 6 kids of African descent and maybe that or a couple more who are First Nations/Aboriginal and another 4 or 5 who are of Asian descent. When I went through HS in the late 80s (over 1500 kids) there were maybe 5 black kids--and one of those was an exchange student.
I have older relatives who have no hesitation about using the n-word. I had a co-worker ask me just the other week why African descent people can use the n-word (and she actually said it) and European descent folks can't. That was a fun convo. I know people who hide the fact they have some First Nations ancestry, simply because it would cause them issues in their community.
Overall, I think we're slightly better on the racism front than the US, but we're certainly not a shining Utopia, especially once you get outside the major cities. (Oh, and cities: Halifax city council is refusing to remove the name Cornwallis from things named for Edward Cornwallis who helped found the city--but also issued the Scalping Procolamations--paying for the scalps of Mi'kmaq). We've still got a long way to go.
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I think I've shared that information before, but tl;dr I'm not a "city person" by any stretch of the imagination. I can't speak for the east coast of Canada, obviously, but I stand by my assessment. As far as our great nation goes I've only lived here and Edmonton and I will say that Edmonton was way the hell more insular and racist in four months than anything I've experienced on the west coast in 25+ years.