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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2016-06-17 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #3453 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3453 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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03. [SPOILERS for SnK]



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04. [SPOILERS for Shadowhunters]



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05. [SPOILERS for Attack On Titan/Shingeki no Kyojin]



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06. [WARNING for RL family death]



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07. [WARNING for abuse]



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08. [WARNING for RL underage sex]

[Lori Maddox, Sable Starr]


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09. [WARNING for child sexual abuse]



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10. [WARNING for incest]

[Wynonna Earp]



















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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #493.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
They teach men that they have the freedom to do anything in the world and get away with it.

Sadly that might be true, so we need to not encourage men to test the limits of their power.

We need to teach men that their place in this world comes with consequences, and male power fantasies undermine that.

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
When men get actual laser eyes and the ability to lift a tank, I'll be worried.

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Are AR-15s close enough to laser eyes or do we need to be totally literal?

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Can woman not buy guns??

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Women generally don't want to. We're not about violence and destruction.

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
That's pretty essentialist.

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
According to the statistics, they can't massacre with them.

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
It is weird how shooters are always male.

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)
That seems like women are not trying hard enoguh.
ill_omened: (Default)

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

[personal profile] ill_omened 2016-06-18 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
^^^^
Doesn't know women can not like Mondays too.

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:26 pm (UTC)(link)
They already have the freedom to rape women, be found guilty, and spend only 3 months in prison, in protected custody, with full media access.

That's a much scarier super power than laser eyes.

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:27 pm (UTC)(link)
Like 80% of the civilized world seems to agree that was a travesty of justice, though

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
If by civilized world you mean online feminist spaces, and I assume that's what you mean, because it's the only civilised world I know anymore, then yes, I agree.

However in the rest of the world, 80% of people think he got punished to harshly.

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
It is not my sense that you're accurately characterizing the reaction of people in America, at the very least, with that. I mean, if nothing else, the judge in the case is going to get recalled and also is literally not being allowed to judge sexual assault cases anymore because of how bad the verdict was. Neither of those is an ordinary reaction that would indicate people think of this as normal operating procedure.

I would also say - I'm not saying don't get outraged, because it's outrageous. Outrage is the only appropriate response. But this is very much a weird, fucked-up, single anomaly, and I think understanding it as normal runs the risk of misunderstanding the nature of the structural injustices that actually are normal.

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Nearly everyone I saw on Reddit (you know the scary evil "men's" website) thought the Brock Turner ruling was a joke and that the guy deserved way more jail time.

So no, it isn't just feminists.
raspberryrain: (raised eyebrow)

9/10

[personal profile] raspberryrain 2016-06-18 01:11 am (UTC)(link)
Are you kidding? I had everybody here jumping down my throat for implying his sentence was remotely acceptable. I never said he was punished too harshly, I just thought that stalking him and/or the judge hereafter over an insufficiently harsh sentence was unnecessary. (And, OK, I said some other dumb things.)

I don't think the demonisation of rapists we see here is that atypical, really.

(I did say that the man who was sentenced to '15 to 25' for the same crime in a state where that was the mandatory minimum was treated too harshly. But I'm apparently a giant pinko bleeding heart because I believe in rehabilitating bad dudes.)

Wait...

Ohh, good troll.
Edited 2016-06-18 01:12 (UTC)
kallanda_lee: (Default)

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2016-06-18 08:02 am (UTC)(link)
Are you kiding, like most of my Facebook feed was people being outraged by it.

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Most people think that was a terrible ruling on the part of the judge. But you do you.

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Most feminists think that. Most people couldn't care less. Sadly We're still a tiny minority in the larger world

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) - 2016-06-17 23:38 (UTC) - Expand

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-18 05:41 am (UTC)(link)
Women have all the freedom to rape and almost never go to prison/be reported in the first place. So by your logic, the strong female character archetype is harmful.

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Any man who doesn't live in self hate and fear is a bastard.

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-17 11:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Pretty much.

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-18 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
You're either a troll, or a very poor excuse for a human being.
raspberryrain: (roll eyes)

2/10

[personal profile] raspberryrain 2016-06-18 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
What's a woman who doesn't live with depression and self-loathing, just for comparison?

Re: Is "Male power fantasy" actually harmful

(Anonymous) 2016-06-18 07:31 am (UTC)(link)
You disgust me. Leave.