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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2017-12-25 06:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #4009 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4009 ⌋

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[The Great British Bake Off]


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[Nioh]


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[Ben Barnes as Billy Russo in The Punisher]


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(Anonymous) 2017-12-26 01:07 am (UTC)(link)
Oh god, OP, I'm sorry you're going through such a hard time. It sucks when family starts taking sides and acts dickish towards each other. *hugs*

I really loved Coco and it made me cry some really ugly tears. It made me miss my grandmother all over again.

(Anonymous) 2017-12-26 01:15 am (UTC)(link)
Same. I don't usually cry over sad scenes, but there were tears by the last stretch of the film and a large part of that is also because I lost my grandmother two years ago. I think this one was kind of a delayed reaction for me, so I did feel a sense of peace with that.

Either way, my condolences. You and OP.

(Anonymous) 2017-12-26 03:44 am (UTC)(link)
My condolences to you too, nonny. *hugs*
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[personal profile] rivulet027 2017-12-26 06:42 am (UTC)(link)
This is what I'm worried about. My grandma and I were really close and it still hurts that I lost her so I'm worried I'll be crying.

OP

(Anonymous) 2017-12-26 01:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

Coco was powerful in a way I didn't imagine. The third act made me remember my grandparents and how they would have acted towards me and my family if they were here. I was openly sobbing when the credits rolled.

OP

(Anonymous) 2017-12-26 01:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks for caring :)

I want to say I have mourned the end of my parents' marriage, but I'd be lying if I said that.

(Anonymous) 2017-12-26 03:38 am (UTC)(link)
My family went through this too and things are a lot calmer ten years later. Don't give up hope, OP - you're in the worst of it right now.

OP

(Anonymous) 2017-12-26 01:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, I hope that would come soon. My mother verbally lashed out at some people I cared for earlier today, and I just want it all to end.

(Anonymous) 2017-12-26 04:15 am (UTC)(link)
Wait, is this a movie where divorced parents get back together? Dammit, if it is, that kills all interest I had in seeing it.

(Anonymous) 2017-12-26 04:36 am (UTC)(link)
Not OP, but no, it isn't. It's about a boy's journey to the land of the dead and family is a major theme of the movie, especially familial love and the bonds between one's immediate and extended family. I can understand why it made OP so sad, especially since there's a part in the movie where a familial bond is repaired.

AYRT

(Anonymous) 2017-12-26 05:25 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, I see! That's a relief.

OP

(Anonymous) 2017-12-26 01:39 pm (UTC)(link)
What the other anon said. The movie is specifically about a boy wanting to become a musician, but the theme of family is the emotional backbone of the whole plot, with the (living and dead) members all forming a bond with his musical ambitions later on.

It's far from being one about divorced parents.





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[personal profile] rivulet027 2017-12-26 06:43 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry you're going through this! I did too, things are still settling down and it's been years, but they do settle down. You'll get through this. It's just not easy. Hugs?

OP

(Anonymous) 2017-12-26 01:41 pm (UTC)(link)
All the hugs.

Right now, I'm just silently praying the pain would heal with time.

Child of Divorce pov

(Anonymous) 2017-12-26 03:27 pm (UTC)(link)
OP, I don't know how old you are, but if you do get a chance to say something to your parents about hoping that there will eventually be a return to civility, do so. The return to civility never really came with my parents until I told my stepmother to NEVER AGAIN talk about my mother that way - then both she & my dad stopped. I never told my mom that and she continued for years to badmouth dad.

Maybe not today while things are very fresh, but look for an opportunity down the road. Sometimes the family needs a reminder that the child will continue to love both parents, and will never appreciate abuse thrown in either parents' direction.

(Anonymous) 2017-12-26 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Dang. That's rough, OP. I'm sorry you and your family are going through such upheaval. Wishing you well going forward-hopefully your family can find a way to deal with this situation that works out as best as it can for all involved. *Hugs*