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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2018-06-24 03:25 pm

[ SECRET POST #4190 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4190 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2018-06-24 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)
In my experience people who belittle cheating tend to be cheaters themselves, but *shrug*

I think it's completely fair to demonize the act of betraying the trust of a loved one. Bold stance, I know. Just because it's technically legal doesn't make it any less traumatizing.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-24 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
You sure seem to be taking this personally.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-24 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I mean, yeah? I've witnessed a friend crumble into a depressed mess because of cheating, that's about how personal it gets. Does that invalidate what I'm saying?

(Anonymous) 2018-06-24 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
That sucks, but your reaction seems OTT, most likely specifically because you're taking it personally.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-24 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Which part of it is over the top exactly? The fact that I don't approve of it?

(Anonymous) 2018-06-24 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
The part where someone suggested cheating isn't as bad as rape or murder and you said they're belittling cheating, maybe.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-24 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Kind of a stretch to assume I equate cheating with rape or murder. The point is that cheating is an asshole thing to do, especially nowadays when there's open/poly relationships commonly catering to different needs. I sure as hell wouldn't date anyone who thinks cheating ain't a big deal.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-25 12:17 am (UTC)(link)
If you don't think that, what's wrong with what the anon you apparently took issue with said?

(Anonymous) 2018-06-24 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)
sorry anon but it's impossible to cheat when you've never dated anyone ever.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-24 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Virgin-shaming a stranger to make yourself feel better about cheating. Good luck with your life, you're gonna need it.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-25 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
says someone who's never dated anyone either let alone been able to cheat. you just like reading about it in fanfic and felt kink-shamed by this secret.

(Anonymous) 2018-06-25 12:46 am (UTC)(link)
uh. i actually meant myself? maybe I didn't word that well but yeah I can't cheat because I can't even get into a relationship in the first place so anon saying people who think cheating isn't a big deal are probably cheaters...well no, I'm not, really.

the fuck does kinkshaming have to do with it anyway?