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...do you guys wanna talk about tonight?

What's on your mind? What are you in the mood for? What's the last text you sent (assuming you send texts?)

I just completely ruined the brownies I was making for work.

oh noooooooo

what happened

I don't know. :(

I completely ruined brownies the last two times I made them. Fortunately I wasn't making them for work. I hope you can figure out what happened, even though I couldn't.

What are they like?

Like this.

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I'm sorry. :(

I'd like a Malibu and diet Pepsi. I think I'll make myself one.

I really like thinking about romance and kissing and people caring for each other and supporting each other through problems and kissing, and I think I'm going to read some fanfiction about those very topics tonight.

Ooh, what pairings are you gonna read about?

I'm in the mood for some hurt/comfort Doctor Who fics, so I'm gonna try to find some that hit all my buttons. Oh, and the last text I sent was to a friend and it had a bunch of crying emojis because she asked me what I thought of last week's episode of Banana Fish.

I'm in the mood for some hurt/comfort Doctor Who fics, so I'm gonna try to find some that hit all my buttons.

right on

I'm sulking because a combo of a miscalculation in my budget and an unexpected medical expense (nothing serious, just irritating) means that until Friday I have a dollar in my bank account.

And, like, I have food. I'm fine.

I'm just REALLY salty I have no soda and have no money to get more soda. I'm not taking this forced break from my soda addiction very well lmao. It's a stupid, petty whine but oh my god, I cannot wait until Friday.

Ugh, that sucks.

I feel you anon. I tried giving up soda at the beginning of Autumn to help lose weight & other health reasons, but I have slipped up a time or two. Soda is so delicious, it's really unfair.

Sorry about your unforeseen medical issue too. That blows. Hope you get better soon.

I have this automatic assumption that everyone else is more important than I am, and what they want is more important than what I want. It's better than thinking I'm the most important person in the world but I wouldn't mind finding a happy medium.

<3 <3 <3

I can feel that for sure

This is probably a personal question, so please ignore it if you'd prefer, but do you think that feeling is in any way connected to motherhood? I know you've mentioned you have an adult son here on the community before. Did you feel this way about yourself prior to becoming a mother? If so, did the feeling become worse after you became a mother?

I'm just curious because I've definitely been there, rosehiptea. I'm not a mother myself, but sometimes I do think the reason I've always wanted to become a mother is in part because mothers are encouraged to downplay or forget their own needs in light of making sure all of their children's needs and most of their wants are met first.

I do hope you find your happy medium. You're very important. Our community wouldn't be what it is without you. You help make us more diverse and you offer lots of really interesting opinions. I love having you around.

I don't mind personal questions, especially since it's a personal thing I said. I had the feeling long before I became a mother, but there's definitely an attitude of "A mother will sacrifice anything for her child," and that did make it worse. I remember feeling utterly destroyed when I couldn't breastfeed. Granted it wasn't a question of putting my wants first as I did want to do it, but I felt like I was letting my son down for the rest of his life and finally people started getting (justifiably) frustrated with me for not getting over it.

That is such a kind and thoughtful thing to say. I didn't realize anyone remembered me that well. Thank you so much.

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Yup, I know what you mean...

I got a $25 Amazon gift card for Christmas from my sister and I'm interested in buying a vibrating dildo. Any suggestions?

Try the rabbit if you're a girl/have girl bits...I can't help you if you're a guy/have guy bits, but maybe a rabbit would be nice if you're a guy too?

I am a female. Thanks for the tip.

There's been another terrorist shooting in France--this time at a Christkindelsmärik. Only a few dead and several wounded, but it's already too much and I'm depressed.

The fact that I literally do not own a phone..?
(cell, we got a home phone no one ever answers, though)

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