[ SECRET POST #4730 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #4730 ⌋

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[Yuri!!! on Ice]
















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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I don't like the idea either, but it is a fictional relationship and I do think this is a situation where the appropriate response is ship-and-let-ship

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sorry but given the majority age of FF14 players is 25+ in my experience, I'm a little bit uncomfortable to grown women fapping to two grown men fucking a teenaged boy.

[(Anonymous)]

i'm sorry anon, haven't you heard? older women fapping to teen/adult ships is FEMINISM now, we can't criticize it otherwise we hate women. :(

[(Anonymous)]

This but unironically.

[(Anonymous)]

But we can totally criticize men fapping to 12-year-old female characters! especially if they ship them with adult men!

[(Anonymous)]

Actually most of us admit we have no problem with whatever men fap to as long as nobody is being hurt. We ain't radfems.

[(Anonymous)]

oh no, there's a lot of your ilk that actively complain and target men for anything they're into, it's the best utterly ironic part of the internet for me. you guys want to be able to fap to whatever the hell you want, but will ream the shit out of men for doing the same.

you're just as hypocritical and awful as the antis you complain about, but by all means, continue thinking you're better.

OP

[(Anonymous)]

Like, I'm literally a 17 year old lesbian but go off I guess lmao

I really don't fucking care if a bunch of old women think I shouldn't ship something, it isn't real, Alphinaud is not ~representative of a real teenager~ (?? like are you serious?? he doesn't act ANYTHING LIKE a real teenager??), and it'd be super fucking hot for him to be sandwiched in between two also-hot men. Sorry not sorry. ‾\_(ツ)_/‾

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

Not old women. These are mostly teenagers who are younger than you. "Old" women in fandom don't care what you ship because we're grownups who know the difference between fiction and reality and that having a squick about a ship is a stupid, self-entitled reason to try and stop that ship from existing.

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[(Anonymous)]

I was literally about to agree and say I'd made a snap judgment but then anon below you there decided to go off, lol

I'm really sorry, I'd love to believe you and I'm sure there's lots of cool older ladies in fandom, but it seems like every time I catch shit it's from some 30+ who thinks I'm a literal infant or something

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[(Anonymous)]

Nah, we just have been around the block for awhile and you're going the temper tantrum of, "YOU DON'T KNOW ME, YOU STICK IN THE MUUUUUD" that we all did when we were that age.

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[(Anonymous)]

Nah come on, no need to give this whole superiority thing

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[(Anonymous)]

Oh god, please grow up. I beg of you. I was in your place, I shipped this shit with age gaps.

I ended up in a relationship with someone twice my age because I thought that the meanie old adults were just holding me back and I regret it.

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[(Anonymous)]

lmao I'm not ACTUALLY ATTRACTED TO PEOPLE TWICE MY AGE, it is FICTION

I don't think "meanie old adults" (wtf were you talking like this when you were 17?) are holding me back?? I have healthy relationships with people my own age and also with my family?? I enjoy fantasy in a safe and controlled place literally because it has zero real-life implications or repercussions?? Frankly it doesn't sound like I'm the one that needs to grow up.

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[(Anonymous)]

Oh, sweetie, keep going on about how mature you are. I do my own fantasy exploration.

But there are lines that don't need to be crossed. Or do you think lolicon is okay, too? shotacon? Adults fucking literal toddlers so long as it's FIIIICTIOOOOON?

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[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT but is there some reason you need to be so condescending?? It's awfully rude to nonny

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[(Anonymous)]

Well now I definitely take you seriously, now that you're talking down to me, lol.

And look, Alphinaud is literally a year off me, and he's the one I'm "relating" to in this scenario I guess, so like... why are you ragging on me so hard? Why is me having a fantasy about two totally fictional older guys seducing the character I like so awful? Seriously. Who am I harming?

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[(Anonymous)]

Hey, I know that once dementia kicks in, it may be hard to differentiate between fiction and reality, but you really don't need to make it this obvious, darling

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[(Anonymous)]

While I’m on the “adult/child fic creeps me out” side, as a teen I shipped my share of adult/teen pairings and never ended up in a relationship with an adult while I was a teenager, and I think that’s mostly a separate, if unfortunate, thing that happens and is caused by adults taking advantage of teenagers, not by adults (or teens) writing fic about teenagers fucking adults.

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[(Anonymous)]

Creepy adults absolutely do use it as a tool, though. They know which teens are going to be more receptive to their advances based on this shit, and can use it to go, "See, it's okay!"

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[(Anonymous)]

AYRT—dude, they don’t know. I got hit on by way more old creeps than guys my own age as a minor, starting when I was 11 and grew instant mega-boobs. I was attracted to guys three times my age and more and I still never slept (or even went out) with any of the ones that tried anything. You were taken advantage of by assholes, and that sucks and I’m sorry it happened to you. Creeps don’t pick teens to hurt based on their preferred reading material, but on who believes their lies because they’re vulnerable.

I personally had pretty much the opposite experience. Guys my own age didn’t interest me at all, but fiction about older guys with teens was a safe and totally std and statutory rape-free way for me to explore my sexuality/get my rocks off.

The few times where someone tried being an inappropriate creep by messaging me/other minors on message boards, the mods banned them, and I ignored private messages.

If fiction about teens and adults fucking didn’t exist, creeps wouldn’t magically vanish or stop trying to fuck teenagers. Your experience is (thank fuck) not universal.

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[(Anonymous)]

I mean ---

i think romanticizing age gaps, especially romanticizing super toxic versions of it, is often bad. I don't think that every single age gap thing is going to lead to people getting into RL toxic relationships.

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[(Anonymous)]

And there are lots of other people who end up in happy, healthy relationships with people twice their age! It's almost like relationships are about multiple factors about the the individuals and not the ages!

You may be an adult, but you're doing the thing where you think everyone else is exactly the same as you, and that's frankly a sign of childishness.

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[(Anonymous)]

They don't start dating those people when they're fucking SIXTEEN, and if they do there is something very wrong there.

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[(Anonymous)]

NAYRT, but it’s legal in the UK for 16 year olds to get married, including to adults out of their teens. I doubt it’s super common or always healthy when it happens, but I’m guessing it’s more similar to an 18 year old marrying, idk, a 40 year old in the US. Just weird and usually creepy, but not absolutely horrifying. But that’s because 16 year olds can be finished with school and starting full time employment, they can drink and I think vote as well. So they are allowed freedom and responsibility that they generally aren’t in the US.