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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2019-12-18 06:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #4730 ]


⌈ Secret Post #4730 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
I wasn't aware that a sixteen year age gap in which one of them IS LITERALLY BELOW 18 STILL AND STILL DEVELOPING is fucking purity politics. Go away, this lesbian is grossed out by how people ignore that one of them is a LITERAL TEENAGER AND A MINOR.

(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 12:54 am (UTC)(link)
I don't like the idea either, but it is a fictional relationship and I do think this is a situation where the appropriate response is ship-and-let-ship

(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 01:00 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry but given the majority age of FF14 players is 25+ in my experience, I'm a little bit uncomfortable to grown women fapping to two grown men fucking a teenaged boy.

(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
i'm sorry anon, haven't you heard? older women fapping to teen/adult ships is FEMINISM now, we can't criticize it otherwise we hate women. :(

(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 04:20 am (UTC)(link)
This but unironically.

(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 08:07 am (UTC)(link)
But we can totally criticize men fapping to 12-year-old female characters! especially if they ship them with adult men!

(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 11:19 am (UTC)(link)
Actually most of us admit we have no problem with whatever men fap to as long as nobody is being hurt. We ain't radfems.

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(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 01:57 am (UTC)(link)
Like, I'm literally a 17 year old lesbian but go off I guess lmao

I really don't fucking care if a bunch of old women think I shouldn't ship something, it isn't real, Alphinaud is not ~representative of a real teenager~ (?? like are you serious?? he doesn't act ANYTHING LIKE a real teenager??), and it'd be super fucking hot for him to be sandwiched in between two also-hot men. Sorry not sorry. ‾\_(ツ)_/‾

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(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 04:29 am (UTC)(link)
Not old women. These are mostly teenagers who are younger than you. "Old" women in fandom don't care what you ship because we're grownups who know the difference between fiction and reality and that having a squick about a ship is a stupid, self-entitled reason to try and stop that ship from existing.

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(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 05:09 am (UTC)(link)
I was literally about to agree and say I'd made a snap judgment but then anon below you there decided to go off, lol

I'm really sorry, I'd love to believe you and I'm sure there's lots of cool older ladies in fandom, but it seems like every time I catch shit it's from some 30+ who thinks I'm a literal infant or something

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(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 05:02 am (UTC)(link)
Oh god, please grow up. I beg of you. I was in your place, I shipped this shit with age gaps.

I ended up in a relationship with someone twice my age because I thought that the meanie old adults were just holding me back and I regret it.

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(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 05:08 am (UTC)(link)
lmao I'm not ACTUALLY ATTRACTED TO PEOPLE TWICE MY AGE, it is FICTION

I don't think "meanie old adults" (wtf were you talking like this when you were 17?) are holding me back?? I have healthy relationships with people my own age and also with my family?? I enjoy fantasy in a safe and controlled place literally because it has zero real-life implications or repercussions?? Frankly it doesn't sound like I'm the one that needs to grow up.

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(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 05:14 am (UTC)(link)
While I’m on the “adult/child fic creeps me out” side, as a teen I shipped my share of adult/teen pairings and never ended up in a relationship with an adult while I was a teenager, and I think that’s mostly a separate, if unfortunate, thing that happens and is caused by adults taking advantage of teenagers, not by adults (or teens) writing fic about teenagers fucking adults.

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(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 05:25 am (UTC)(link)
I mean ---

i think romanticizing age gaps, especially romanticizing super toxic versions of it, is often bad. I don't think that every single age gap thing is going to lead to people getting into RL toxic relationships.

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(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 06:07 am (UTC)(link)
And there are lots of other people who end up in happy, healthy relationships with people twice their age! It's almost like relationships are about multiple factors about the the individuals and not the ages!

You may be an adult, but you're doing the thing where you think everyone else is exactly the same as you, and that's frankly a sign of childishness.

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(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
age of majority in eorzea is 16, so... no, not a minor.

(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
He's a minor. He acts like a normal teenager. There were 12-year-old noblewomen getting married to adults in our past, that doesn't make it okay that thirteen-year-olds get married to adults now.

(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
"He acts like a normal teenager."

idk about you, but i sure don't know any teenagers who are deeply involved in the politics of their country, who fight on the front lines of battles, and who run quasi-military organizations.

(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 01:09 am (UTC)(link)
Listen. When he reacts to things like a normal, but prodigal, teenager, it doesn't fucking matter. I'm sorry you find sixteen-year-olds fucking guys twice their age hot. That's a you problem.

Alphinaud is a teenager. He's not an adult.

(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
lol i don't even ship it, i just find people getting up in arms about a couple of fictional characters banging to be hilarious.

alphinaud is not a real teenager. it doesn't matter who people want to write him fucking because he doesn't really exist.

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(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 01:08 am (UTC)(link)
The age of majority in a fictional country could not possibly have any bearing on the matter one way or the other

(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, that logic means if I make age of majority 13 in my fictional canon, then clearly it's not wrong is a 13-year-old girl marries a 40-year-old man!

(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 01:12 am (UTC)(link)
why do ppl always bring up age of consent as if that's some kind of winning statement? age of consent laws are so that teenagers can have sex with EACH OTHER without getting into legal trouble for it. it's not so that adults can perv on teenagers and face no consequences for their actions.

Actually, I don't believe that's true.

(Anonymous) 2019-12-19 04:54 am (UTC)(link)
I think a lot of them evolved out marriage age laws which actually have a lot to do with older men marrying younger women. I don't think that good or anything, but it is what it is. I do know a lot of states have put near in age exceptions on the books so that, yeah, teenagers can have sex with each without getting arrested. But here's the thing, a lot of US television shows and movies follow 18 as an age of consent because they are based in California, and California's laws mean that if two sixteen-year-olds have sex, they have both committed a crime, though it is a misdemeanor (it could be a felony in other cases).

(Anonymous) 2019-12-20 04:24 pm (UTC)(link)
Nope. Age of consent laws in many countries are about marriage or prostitution and about protecting the man/client. Sorry to burst your bubble