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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2020-09-21 06:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #5008 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5008 ⌋

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Re: What are things a lot of people seem to find hot (in fiction) that just don’t do it for you?

(Anonymous) 2020-09-22 03:31 am (UTC)(link)
Most of the "scene" Dom/sub stuff, honestly. Collars. Kneeling. The 'good boy,' 'pretty boy,' infantilizing stuff. It's not a hard squick, and I can ignore it if the rest of the dynamic is doing it for me, but it's all just kind of ugh.

Re: What are things a lot of people seem to find hot (in fiction) that just don’t do it for you?

(Anonymous) 2020-09-22 03:53 am (UTC)(link)
Oh hey, it me. In other words, totally seconding this.

I love a bit of informal D/s in my smut, but as soon as you formalize it and make it this whole scene thing, it just looses its appeal for me.

I love when D/s is just like this natural extension of the character's acting on instinct and doing what feels good and responding to each other's signals. Maybe panting out the occasional, "This okay?" in the moment, if it's needed.