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Missed it last night!

So what did everyone do today and what do you plan on doing tomorrow?

Today I went to get my TSA precheck application done. It took like ten minutes. Then I sent shopping for some new foundation. I have also been doing the Bug Off on Animal Crossing. Tonight we are doing to watch a movie and eat some Thai food.

Tomorrow I'll be driving home.

Nothing much. Did some laundry and dried it outside because it's so hot. I should go grocery shopping, but it's over a hundred degrees outside and I really don't feel like burning my hands on the steering wheel, so I'm just gonna go later.

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Not much, had classes in the early afternoon and kind of just idled around til now, tonight I'm playing videogames til my friends hop on VC and we watch the Lighthouse and tomorrow I'm going to a barbeque with my folks.

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Today I had to go to the apple store to get the trackpad on my computer fixed. It was my first time in this apple store, and I didn't realize it was in a huge and confusing mall with a huge and confusing parking lot. So the trip took longer than expected and took a whole lot out of me.

So taking it easy the rest of today. Probably going to bed early. Listing to music on Youtube.

Tomorrow is going to be the fun day. My mom and I are going to a day spa for my birthday. We're both getting massages and mani/pedis. Then we get to use the facilities, which includes multiple pools and hot tubs, for the rest of the day. They serve sushi for lunch among other things. I'm super excited. And TBH I really need the massage.

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Boiling to death. It's a horrible heatwave up here and nowhere has AC. I can barely move, the heat's so oppressive.

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Trying to dodge out of helping watch my sister's kids to finish editing a smutty fanfic 😂
Also doing laundry

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Needed a new suit for court so went out and picked one up, then ended up dropping half a bag on a new fancy watch. Men have some few chances to accessorise so thought I'd take the opportunity.

Going to spend Sunday catching up with some work off the clock and reading the latest volume of Beastars which Waterstones had. Feels good man.

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Finished the doors for my new shed by myself inside since it's been pouring since Wednesday, and hung them during breaks in the rain. All that's left now is to add the one side of the handle with the lock in it, because going by the instructions, you need someone on the inside to tighten the bolts while it's in the locked position, and someone on the outside to turn the key to unlock it when they're done. :P Tried to order some utility shelving so I could start moving a bunch of things in right away, but Meijer was out of the one I wanted, and Walmart's options either have horrible reviews or are 2-3 times the price plus ridiculous shipping because they're heavy. Don't feel safe walking around inside Lowe's (and Home Depot is run by scumbags) so I'll have to wait.

Other than that, changed my sheets and got the old ones in the laundry, and continued cleaning that one corner of my bathroom that had the infestation going on. There is nothing there now other than the toilet and cabinets, but I'm keeping an eye out for creepy tiny moving specks and if there are none for the next two days maybe I can have a hand towel and the cat box back in there.

...Forgot to clean bunny boxes but now it's dark and pouring rain again so that's going to have to wait till tomorrow.

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I remembered something out of the blue last night. My dad and I had gone to see a movie, and afterwards he asked me why I was so quiet. I told him that I was just reacclimatizing to the real world, and he was confused. It turned out that when he consumes media, he doesn’t get immersed. He doesn’t come out of it like he’s just gone through a change in reality. Which makes me wonder how he even consumes media at all, because the only way I can imagine doing so is by losing my thoughts to it and entering the story. Do you guys get immersed in books and movies, or do you enjoy them some other way? Can you describe the other way?

I don't get much immersed in anything except maybe work much, mostly out of having a disperse attention span and constantly switching between tasks. I'd say I still take in everything that's happening, connect with the characters and so on but I'm still fully aware of my surroundings and what's going on. I thought immersion was reserved for things one really really liked so this concept of engaging with everything like this is new to me.

Immersion is important, but it's not the only way I enjoy things. A really good book or movie will make me feel like I'm waking up from a dream when it's over and I quite like that feeling. That doesn't happen with everything though. I can still enjoy something without being immersed in it, but only if I'm with somebody to talk to about it.

Wow, uh...no? That's...okay I'm not going to say anything else there.

I watch things. I view them with my eyes and hear the dialogue/music/fx with my ears. If it's good, I might genuinely focus my attention on it, but I'm still pretty damn oriented in the real world. I know where I'm sitting, who I'm next to, and what else is going on around me. I would never have conceived of anyone experiencing a shift in reality, that's alien to me.

I only feel like that for good books these days. Otherwise for most stuff, I feel like I'm seeing how a fellow writer wrote things in a plot, rather than getting super suspension of disbelief, if that makes sense. I still enjoy stories, but I'm not super deep into it most of the time as you described. Hopefully there will be more stories that will get me super immersed though!

Huh, I definitely experience story immersion, but not nearly to the extent you're describing. I'm still very much rooted to the world consciously, even if my thoughts are totally absorbed in the world I'm reading about/watching/playing in. Like it wouldn't be a huge deal if I had to pause something to go swap my laundry and come back.

Yeah, I like getting immersed. I even get mad at 555 fake phone numbers.

Not at all, I didn't even know that was a thing. Then again, I am that person that's watching a movie while reading a book while playing one of those 'connect three' games on my phone. xD

I can't imagine being so 'into' something that I forgot I was... existing, I guess is what I am getting from your definition of immersion? Even when I go to the movies I'm just... watching something?

That really only happens to me with books for some reason. Maybe because with visual media, it's all shown to you and you don't really have to use your imagination to fill in so many blanks? Maybe my mind doesn't quite recognize the "real world" while I'm reading because it's working harder to imagine what things look like or sound like...

But honestly I don't really enjoy TV and movies so... *shrug*

Occasionally with RPGs but that's assuming I'm REALLY into the game in question which typically only happens once every other year or so. I attempt to prologue the 'high' of immersion through collecting related merch and writing fanfic.

Yes, immersion is important to me, at least when it comes to fiction. I love getting totally immersed in the world of the piece of media. That's why characterization and worldbuilding are the two most important things to me in a story. I want the world and the characters to feel real. Also, that's why I hate first person, because I can't seem to immerse with things written in first person.

Immersion is awesome, but I only experience a moderate degree of it when I'm really engaged with something (especially a book), and I almost never get so immersed that I partially forget myself. The fact that I don't forget myself doesn't make me any less engaged though. I'm definitely the type of person who hyperfixates intensely on certain stories, sometimes to a degree where it's a little bit unbalanced and not entirely healthy. But for me that manifests in how I think about the story when I'm not actively watching/reading it. When I'm hyperfixated I think about that story and those characters constantly, like they're never far from the front of my mind.

One instance I remember where I did partially forget myself was when I read the entirety of The Virgin Suicides in one day, finished reading it late at night, went to the bathroom, and was genuinely startled that my own face in the bathroom mirror was pretty. It was jarring and felt like it shouldn't look that way. The book goes to such an ugly, sickly, decaying, disturbing place, with a lot of vivid little sensory details woven in, and I guess I was immersed enough in it that by the time I finished it, ugliness was all I was expecting to see. The fact that the Lisbon girls are all pretty until they essentially begin to decay (psychologically) under the suffocating weight of their parents moral panic and deranged imprisonment may've had something to do with it as well. To this day I don't know how I feel about the book, but it certainly packed a punch.

I love when I can get immersed in something but it's kinda rare for me. It was easier to get immersed in movies when I was a kid (the original Jurassic Park film comes to mind) but as an adult, I usually notice too many inconsistencies in movies or little things that ruin my suspension of belief and that makes it hard to get immersed. If the movie is good (and the soundtrack is good), I can get immersed in certain scenes or for several minutes.

I can absolutely get immersed in music though if it's something I like. Good music can really transport me.

I also get really immersed in books if they're written well. Sometimes books are written with such flowery prose or sentences that have me tripping and stumbling all over them and it doesn't allow me to get immersed at all. (Usually I quit the book when that happens because idgaf about fancy words/sentence structure; I read for the story.) But if the book is written in a way that doesn't have me focused on the words on the page, then I can get absolutely immersed and it'll be like I'm experiencing it. The best books are the ones where I don't even see the words on the page at all and then later on I get confused and think it was a really good movie that I watched.

It depends on the media. Some are very easy to get lost in and I enjoy that very much. Others... there are aspects that make it hard to forget you're watching a movie. Bad performances, weak plots, terrible costume/wig choices, etc. Those all prevent total immersion. I might still enjoy what I'm watching, but it's definitely "something I'm watching" and not something I'm immersed in to the point of forgetting it's not real.

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