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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-08-15 04:10 pm

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Re: Envy/Jealousy

(Anonymous) 2021-08-16 11:36 am (UTC)(link)
I try to keep a balance between admitting when I'm jealous, and being happy for the person I'm jealous of anyways. That's if I feel they deserve it. If I don't feel that way, I'll try to be self-aware of my jealousy still. Even if I can't bring myself to feel happy for them.

It's not always easy. But being aware of my feelings as well as my shortcomings is one of the only things I can take some pride in being good at. Of course, that ability came from being an introvert for most of my life, and spending a lot of time in my head.

Also, being aware isn't the same as being happy with my feelings. But acknowledging is still a somewhat cathartic feeling to me.

As for your second question, I don't really have an answer. I don't really recall anyone being jealous of me that I know of as an adult. And as a kid, the closest I got to people being envious of me is shallow things like me having something they didn't. So I don't know how I would feel on any deep level if someone was jealous of me for some weird reason.