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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-08-15 04:10 pm

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Official advertise your fandom-related event thread.

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Games thread!

POLL:

(Anonymous) 2021-08-15 08:36 pm (UTC)(link)
Is rudeness your “natural” state that you have to suppress, or does being pleasant come easily to you?

I was thinking today about how I feel annoyed sometimes because nobody realizes just how much effort it takes me to act like a sociable human being instead of giving in to the urge to yell at people who don’t deserve it and things like that. And I got to thinking, don’t they realize how hard it is from doing it themselves? Or are most people actually not like this, and being nice and polite is their natural state? I can’t ask the whole world, and this is the biggest group of people I can reach, so I want to see how many people find it a struggle to keep up a front of decency and how many don’t feel like it’s a front at all.

Cynical tl;dr: I’m an asshole who spends my whole life pretending not to be an asshole. Are you?

(Anonymous) 2021-08-15 08:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think you need to feel so guilty OP. It's for your personal use and you're not sharing it anywhere.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-15 08:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Never heard of this book but it looks super interesting. I'll check it out!
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Re: POLL:

[personal profile] mishey22 2021-08-15 09:02 pm (UTC)(link)
It depends on the day? Sometimes it's hard to not be rude but sometimes it's easy for me to be magnanimous.

I guess that isn't really helpful for your poll.

Re: POLL:

(Anonymous) 2021-08-15 09:02 pm (UTC)(link)
Being nice comes easily, but I'm a cranky asshole inside. So on the outside I'm friendly and helpful, even while I'm hating you on the inside.

But that's only towards people that have pissed me off or wronged me in some way. Being polite and friendly towards people who haven't done anything comes naturally to me, yes.

Envy/Jealousy

(Anonymous) 2021-08-15 09:03 pm (UTC)(link)
How do you cope with feeling envious/jealous of others when you see someone get recognition you wished you received?

How do you cope with someone telling you they're envious of you? Has this happened? Please tell me the story.

(Anonymous) 2021-08-15 09:15 pm (UTC)(link)

+1

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Re: POLL:

[personal profile] pantswarrior 2021-08-15 09:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, this sounds like me too. I think you kind of have to be able to pull off the "friendly on the outside even when you're a complete and utter idiot and I want to tell you so" thing in order to survive working retail/customer service/IT support... but in order to stay sane, you gotta have an outlet like later complaining to your coworkers about the idiocy. XD

But generally I am friendly and good-natured towards people until they give me a reason not to be. Like today there were these two adorable little girls walking along my little side street while I was heading out to the park, and if it wasn't sketchy for a complete stranger, I had the urge to call out the car window that they look beautiful, and they should never listen to anyone who ever tells them otherwise.

Re: POLL:

(Anonymous) 2021-08-15 09:26 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm very well socialized and I worked ten retail Christmases, so I'm pretty good at not saying the asshole things in my head.
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Re: POLL:

[personal profile] philstar22 2021-08-15 09:35 pm (UTC)(link)
I actually have to work my way up to even positive, constructive criticism because my natural state is to compliment and make someone feel good. I always want to make people happy, feel better, have a good day.

The exception to that is when I see racism, sexism, other prejudice. Not afraid to call that out. But otherwise, my instinct is comfort, compliments, and praise.

Re: Envy/Jealousy

(Anonymous) 2021-08-15 10:02 pm (UTC)(link)
1. I don't. I just try to avoid the person as much as I can, and I am forever envious in silence. Online, it means that I block a lot of people, because I'm bitter and petty and it hurts too much to see others have the recognition, attention, etc I wish I received.

2. This has never happened and probably never will. See above, I'm a petty, bitter and sad person-who in their right mind would ever envy me?

Do you watch trailers/teasers?

(Anonymous) 2021-08-15 10:08 pm (UTC)(link)
Or do you avoid them?

Re: POLL:

(Anonymous) 2021-08-15 10:24 pm (UTC)(link)
I spend a lot of time trying not to give in to stuff like this, yeah. Though I'd argue that the people I want to yell at DO deserve it. But then if I'm an asshole, that's exactly what I'd believe, right?

It's easier in some situations and with some people than others, and of course, a lot depends on my mood. I try to be tolerant and patient of people when possible. But if I'm tired, already irritated, if the person is being extra EXTRA dense or just rather obliviously inconsiderate, then... it's tough.

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