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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2021-12-18 03:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #5461 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5461 ⌋

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Re: What's on your mind?

(Anonymous) 2021-12-19 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
I have a shitty family. I wish there was one person in the immediate family who's nice. (At least I know how to act like a decent person.) No, since my grandmother died, which was a long time ago - no-one.

Just had another bust-up with the sister I was still talking to. I thought, "I'll go along and do the decent thing" but no. I lasted less than five minutes.

I think it was William Gibson who said, "Before you diagnose yourself with depression or low self-esteem, first make sure that you are not, in fact, surrounded by assholes." How right he was. I wonder what my life had been if I'd had a kind family? Or even a halfway decent one?

Re: What's on your mind?

(Anonymous) 2021-12-19 02:17 am (UTC)(link)
I feel you. I'm only in contact with my brother and even that's sporadic because... I just cannot? I'm tired of being the family punching bag. But I do wonder what I'd be like if my family had loved and supported me instead of neglected and belittled and tore me down at every chance they had.

Re: What's on your mind?

(Anonymous) 2021-12-19 04:51 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt "family punching bag" says it so well. And really, what's the point of that behaviour? I can't fathom it at all.

Glad you've got some contact with your brother, though.

Re: What's on your mind?

(Anonymous) 2021-12-19 05:18 am (UTC)(link)
Damn, for a second, I thought I had written this post earlier.