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(Anonymous) 2022-05-11 01:09 am (UTC)(link)I dislike their racism towards gaijins as well.
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(Anonymous) 2022-05-11 08:13 am (UTC)(link)So idk what kind of racism people are talking about.
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(Anonymous) 2022-05-11 12:36 pm (UTC)(link)White people have it easier than all the other foreign demographics, but when you understand the language and try to work or establish long relationships in an environment almost exclusively Japanese it's almost impossible even if you're white and speak the language at a native level.
"Expats" (I fucking hate this word omg) usually have it easier in Japan because they can not abide to some societal rules that are expected from Japanese people. it's not always because they're "better" or "prettier". The vast majority of times it's because we are stupid gaijin that don't understand Japanese nor their culture and we are all tourist even if we've lived here for 10+ years.
I love Japan and I will love it forever until the day I die. It gave me a lot and made me the person I am, but saying it's a "perfect" place without racism or xenophobia is just wrong.
Keep in mind that youtube etc influencers are trying to sell something to you when broadcasting their lives on the web. Sometimes they're trying to sell the image that Japan in a perfect place to live and that they are living their best live AND YOU ARE NOT.
Also, foreign women and men have a very different experience of Japan. Always keep that in mind.
PS: One example of my "expact priviledge" is that I'm a gender non conforming woman and when I was searching for for in a Japanese firm I could do that without wearing medium/high heels (I wear men shoes), with no make-up or dying my natural short blond hair. Were I Japanese I'd have to wear medium heels, wear make up and have shoulder lenght black hair. So yeah, I'm lucky as hell. But I take so much shit over other stuff that IDK. It balances out.
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(Anonymous) 2022-05-11 02:10 pm (UTC)(link)I'd not be able to move somewhere where it's so hard to make real friends...
Who has it easier, f or m foreigners?
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(Anonymous) 2022-05-11 01:47 pm (UTC)(link)But I guess you watched some vlogs so really, you're the expert.
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(Anonymous) 2022-05-11 02:07 pm (UTC)(link)I've seen about a dozen jDramas and manga. Black men are fitishised, party blonde clown wigs are a thing. Nationalism is pretty strong in both manga and anime. I've seen a video about bullying a mixed race student faced.
I hail from a multi racial country so I judge Japan hard.
However there's no need for you to know all these if you are not planning to move there tbh. There's always something problematic about media we consume, screw that. So just enjoy those vlogs.
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(Anonymous) 2022-05-11 03:05 pm (UTC)(link)Non-white foreigners, especially black people and Koreans, get treated very differently than white people. LGBT people get treated very differently than cishet people. Neurodivergant and disabled people get treated very differently than neurotypical and able bodied people. And women get treated differently than men. There is a push amongst younger Japanese people to improve all of these things in their country, so it’s untrue when people treat Japan as an all around backwards country, where everyone is a bigot, just because there is a strong conservative attitude among the older population. But change is always a matter of time and lots of effort, so these improvements won’t happen overnight.
And also, this isn’t quite xenophobia in the traditional sense, but staying out of other people’s business and ignoring inconvenient things does still happen there, so it’s definitely not a completely foreigner-friendly country(but what country is?), but it’s not a completely hostile one either. There’s a lot of nuance to this, and things will always depend on individual people, instead of generalizing entire groups as either welcoming or hostile. For instance, I was ignored by so many people when I needed directions once(this was before cellphones, much less smartphones), even though I was speaking Japanese, and was kinda panicking on the inside. But I eventually had someone come up and help me out, and he became one of my best friends. We still keep in touch.
Either way, the other anons replying are definitely correct that these vlogs aren’t a genuine representative experience for most people. They’re another kind of polished entertainment.
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Your experience is, quite obviously, very, very limited.
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(Anonymous) 2022-05-11 07:55 pm (UTC)(link)So, y'know, the exact same kind of racism she would face almost anywhere else in the world.
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There is absolutely a conversation to be had about Hetalia and its silence on historical atrocities, but attaching the word "nazi" to a comic depicting WWII-era Italy and Germany as a star-crossed MLM couple (Chibitalia is canon) is... pretty clueless about what nazism is.