[ SECRET POST #5756 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #5756 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 52 secrets from Secret Submission Post #824.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

Re: Non-fandom secrets!

[(Anonymous)]

If I had enough of an independent income where I could support myself comfortably as I'd like, I'd get a divorce. I'm not in an abusive relationship and my husband isn't an awful person. He's just not very good at being a good partner and while he's trying, I'm tired of waiting for him to get better at this. I want a two bedroom apartment with light and plants and my books. I want to cook only for myself and clean up only after myself, and I don't want to have a give a shit about someone else's needs and feelings before my own.

Re: Non-fandom secrets!

[(Anonymous)]

I feel so sad hearing this for some reason. Hope things get better for you both somehow, whether it ends in divorce or not.

Re: Non-fandom secrets!

[tabaqui]

I feel you. This is how I felt after 30 years of marriage, and now that i've been 7 years divorced, it's such a fucking RELIEF to not have to deal with another person's...everything. And, like you, my ex SO was not and is not a bad, abusive, or terrible person. Just selfish in a lot of small ways (never grocery shopped or made a meal or cleaned), and demanding about one thing in a really big way that was never, ever going to change.

I hope you can find equilibrium in your relationship, Anon, or that you can find your way to being single. I am so very glad I am (and also will never fucking date. Ever. Forever.)

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[(Anonymous)]

Currently living the alone life with my dog and books. It's really great in a lot of ways.

I do actually really want to be in a relationship, but am afraid of your situation. All my friends in hetero relationship are in the shitty pattern of the women taking care of the man. The women do the vast majority of the cleaning, cooking, household planning, and emotional labor. I have a chronic illness and can't take care of anyone else besides me and my dog.

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[(Anonymous)]

I get this. Same, honestly. Except we have kids, so it's just way too complicated and a world of hurt.

Re: Non-fandom secrets!

[(Anonymous)]

I get it. I guess relationships are better when you're both on the same wavelength. Anyway, I hope the situation improves, whether that might mean to you.