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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-02-17 05:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #5886 ]


⌈ Secret Post #5886 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2023-02-17 10:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't disagree, I don't like rimming either, but I am curious about people's opinions on like, what sex acts need to be tagged. Is it every single one under all circumstances? Bc that seems excessive, but I don't really know how you draw a line between "normal and don't need to be specifically tagged" and like, "gross enough that you are obligated to tag".

(Anonymous) 2023-02-18 03:30 am (UTC)(link)
Please tag sex, I (as an asexual slow-burn,-big-drama-lover) wish I could just avoid sex fics sometimes.

(Anonymous) 2023-02-18 07:10 am (UTC)(link)
isn't that what the rating is for

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(Anonymous) 2023-02-17 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)
That image. Ha ha ha~

+1

(Anonymous) 2023-02-17 10:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Amazing secret design

(Anonymous) 2023-02-17 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)
lmao, right??
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[personal profile] greghousesgf 2023-02-18 12:33 am (UTC)(link)
way to ruin chocolate donuts for me....

(Anonymous) 2023-02-18 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
It's the opposite for me, I have a craving now...

(Anonymous) 2023-02-17 10:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Fair. I like rimming well enough, but still, fair.

(Anonymous) 2023-02-17 11:02 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm not really bothered by the act of rimming in itself, but by the lack of preparation involved (that includes fics that start in the middle of sex so I can pretend prepping happened offscreen). Most of the time characters just stick their tongues into unwashed asscracks without any preamble. And, well, consuming excrement is a major squick for me so I've had to close several fics that were otherwise really good.
Which is a long ramble to say that I agree with OP about tagging.

(Anonymous) 2023-02-17 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm the opposite. It's prep that makes it a turn-off for me, because suddenly it's like, oh we're being realistic here, and then my critical brain is engaged, and I'm thinking about stuff I don't want to be thinking about, and the hotness has left the building. AFAIC my faves all have buttholes and asscracks that smell like sexy roses and taste like sexy honey. Realism need not apply.
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[personal profile] philstar22 2023-02-18 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
This, same. Plus I'm usually reading fic involving either fantasy and magic or aliens and the future, so I prefer to pretend that none of the realism stuff is necessary.

(Anonymous) 2023-02-18 08:01 am (UTC)(link)
Yep, this. Everyone is magically clean all the time unless the fic is kinking on the nastiness.

(Anonymous) 2023-02-18 09:01 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt
I can excuse a lot of unrealisticness in my smut, but this is one thing that I can't get past. (Same with going straight from anal to oral) Sometimes there are extenuating things, like an off-hand mention of washing one's ass or a plausibility existing that prep was done offscreen. But usually not even that bare minimum is provided and all I can think about is poop being eaten and it completely throws me out of the fic. But as I said, excrement consumption is my squick so that's probably what sets my critical brain off.

Also, hard disagree on prep being a turn-off. Prep, foreplay and aftercare are the things that make smut sexy. The part with Tab A in Slot B is always the most boring.
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[personal profile] cakemage 2023-02-18 01:26 am (UTC)(link)
Agreed so hard. Rimming is one of my biggest squicks and untagged rimming is one of the quickest ways to get me to back-button the fuck out of a fic, even if I was otherwise enjoying it. I mean, to each their own and all, but I swear I will never understand the appeal.

(Anonymous) 2023-02-18 01:30 am (UTC)(link)
To each their own of course, but the appeal is just that it feels really good.
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[personal profile] cakemage 2023-02-18 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
I can understand how it would feel good, but I can't get past the germs and the possibility of getting actual shit on your tongue. No judgement on people who are into ass-eating, but like, no thank you.

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[personal profile] arcanetrivia 2023-02-18 02:26 am (UTC)(link)
Fair ask, anon. But LOL that choice of image. (Also, if someone's taking a bite out like that, they're probably doing rimming rong.)

(Anonymous) 2023-02-18 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
Huh, I've never run into it untagged before. That would be quite unfortunate, yeesh.

I wish I could enjoy reading about rimming but I cannot get past how unhygienic it would be. I remember reading this article about some guy who kept getting Giardia because he would travel around the world and rim random guys... That solidified my disgust. IIRC the point of the article was that doctors didn't know enough about how to treat it because it wasn't as common of a sex act among straight people. I just kept thinking to myself, "Can't you stop doing this specific dangerous thing that has caused recurrent painful uncomfortable illness for you? Or at least just do it with only a specific partner?"

(Anonymous) 2023-02-18 02:50 am (UTC)(link)
my cats had giardia when we got them from the foster-- I'm guessing the whole litter did.

I did not even imagine until this moment that a human could get it and if I wasn't squicked by rimming before THIS would absolutely do it

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(Anonymous) 2023-02-18 05:44 am (UTC)(link)
Wow, the choice of image here is giving me really conflicted feelings, going from "gross" to "ouch" to "man I really need a doughnut".

(Anonymous) 2023-02-18 08:02 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not going to tag for every sex act in the fic because then I'd have to tag through the whole progress.

[personal profile] hey_hey_hey 2023-02-18 11:05 am (UTC)(link)
Chocolate covered chocolate donuts with chocolate dust on top? Talk about overkill.

(Anonymous) 2023-02-18 05:41 pm (UTC)(link)
As a writer I try to tag acts that I think might be hard yes/no, rimming, even if just a quick job, I usually tag.
As a reader, I tend to not be as harsh. If there are no warnings or tags I know I'm going in with my own caution.

Like, improper tagging can be annoying but not a big deal to me, personally.