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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-07-10 04:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #6030 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6030 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2023-07-11 09:15 am (UTC)(link)
Do you want an award for your moral integrity? Do you really not understand how trauma can produce an instinct to lie for self-protection?

(Anonymous) 2023-07-11 02:26 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

Do you really not understand how trauma can produce a self-protection instinct to not trust people who lie about random shit?

(Anonymous) 2023-07-11 06:31 pm (UTC)(link)
They’ve already said that they’re hatred for liars doesn’t come from trauma. They’re treating someone who’s behavior has come from trauma callously. So it’s weird that you’re defending this.

SA

(Anonymous) 2023-07-11 06:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Or maybe it is that anon. There’s so many to keep track of. And it definitely doesn’t help that several are saying similar things but one says they were bullied and the other says they don’t feel this way because of trauma.

(Anonymous) 2023-07-11 06:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Did you miss the DA?

Outside of life and death situations, lying is a societal ill. If you're lying because of trauma, get thee to a therapist. The trauma is not your fault, but the actions you take stemming from it are absolutely your responsibility.

(Anonymous) 2023-07-11 08:17 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT I absolutely understand that can trauma can be and usually is the reason for compulsive lying. That doesn’t make the person any more trustworthy though. Lie to me and I won’t trust you. And that’s really not as uncommon in the real world as so many in this thread make it seem. It’s true of cats and dog and chimps and elephants and horses, to name a few animals that have been researched extensively in regards to social trust. Humans are more likely to be forgiving because trust is no longer vital for our individual, communal, or species survival.