[ SECRET POST #6030 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6030 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

It doesn’t matter to me why they lied, it only matters that they lied. If someone cannot be honest about minor stuff like watching a tv show or movie, then obviously I am not going to trust them about anything. You can excuse it all you want but that doesn’t mean I have to *shrug* Good on them if they eventually work on failings and decide to be honest people but it’s ridiculous to assume everyone is suddenly going to believe them about anything.

[(Anonymous)]

Do you want an award for your moral integrity? Do you really not understand how trauma can produce an instinct to lie for self-protection?

[(Anonymous)]

DA

Do you really not understand how trauma can produce a self-protection instinct to not trust people who lie about random shit?

[(Anonymous)]

They’ve already said that they’re hatred for liars doesn’t come from trauma. They’re treating someone who’s behavior has come from trauma callously. So it’s weird that you’re defending this.

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[(Anonymous)]

Or maybe it is that anon. There’s so many to keep track of. And it definitely doesn’t help that several are saying similar things but one says they were bullied and the other says they don’t feel this way because of trauma.

[(Anonymous)]

Did you miss the DA?

Outside of life and death situations, lying is a societal ill. If you're lying because of trauma, get thee to a therapist. The trauma is not your fault, but the actions you take stemming from it are absolutely your responsibility.

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT I absolutely understand that can trauma can be and usually is the reason for compulsive lying. That doesn’t make the person any more trustworthy though. Lie to me and I won’t trust you. And that’s really not as uncommon in the real world as so many in this thread make it seem. It’s true of cats and dog and chimps and elephants and horses, to name a few animals that have been researched extensively in regards to social trust. Humans are more likely to be forgiving because trust is no longer vital for our individual, communal, or species survival.