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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2023-07-14 05:08 pm

[ SECRET POST #6034 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6034 ⌋

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Re: My aroace people, how do you deal with being the 3rd wheel?

(Anonymous) 2023-07-15 05:02 am (UTC)(link)
Hard pass. I don't mind third wheeling (I have attitude "it's not me who is the third wheel but your SO who is interfering with our friendship time" ahahahaha). But having no privacy while everyone have it? Fuck this shit. That's actually quite infuriating.
Also with people I am not familiar with? So I am going to sleep in a common room while this people stroll around? Nope. No going to sleep early because everyone else are playing IN YOUR ROOM into the night? Nope nope nope.
Sorry my only advice is - Fuck this shit. I am really angry on your behalf because we always get this shit, aren't we? Would you be invited if you were with a partner? Would it be the same no privacy shit if you were with a partner? I bet no.

SA

(Anonymous) 2023-07-15 05:07 am (UTC)(link)
Oops, that's a lot of "shit" in one comment but I became heated there haha.

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(Anonymous) 2023-07-15 06:07 am (UTC)(link)
this isn't an aroace thing, this is an inconsiderate bunch of people not considering that inviting their "single" friend and then asking them to basically take the shit-tier lodgings just so they can plausibly be part of a party is actually being really bad friends.

I'm neither aro nor ace but if I was invited to a cabin with 3 couples I'd nope the shit out just from being some sort of invite filler without the arbitrary pass to warrant the luxury of a private room. It's fucking rude. If you were friends with all 6 people and happy to have a couch just to be able to have a killer weekend with your 6 best friends, that's one thing, but it sounds like this ain't that. Love yourself and don't fill out someone's guilt invite - you being uncomfortable in any sense, including a bad night's sleep, isn't a price to pay so they don't feel guilty for not inviting you to their shindig.