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[ SECRET POST #6244 ]

⌈ Secret Post #6244 ⌋

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Tbh I still have a hard time fully believing or understanding it. Like, you are telling me people just look at other people and their body physically responds? The idea is so bizarre to me.

I always thought sexual/physical attraction was something that would turn on during sex, like part of the act itself, not something that can turn on and then leads to sex. Or is just separate from sex altogether.

Yeah, I get that. I admit that I sort of mentally squinted at the “no, they mean they actually want to have sex with and are physically turned on by them” thing. Like…okay, sounds fake, but if you (and apparently EVERYONE ELSE, at least until I read this thread) say so…

"Seems fake but okay" is exactly my reaction 🤣

"Sounds fake because it doesn't describe me" is toddler-level thought.

Go away

Stop being a wuss.

You can leave now.

No, you're right. It's kind of ignorant to think that you're the center of the universe and correct and it is other people who are wrong.

sock-puppet

Why would that be hard to believe? How do you think sexually reproductive species are driven to complete the act?

This is such a narrow, incurious perspective. "I haven't personally experienced it. Therefore, I doubt that it's real."

A drive to reprodice is not the same as a sex drive or sexual attraction.

I do find it funny that you are insulting someone for not understanding a different lived experience when you are essentially doing the same.

I don't see how that's so. You have outright said that you think the lived experience of people who aren't you isn't entirely believable; I have said no such thing.

Nope. You are saying the exact same thing.
Because you don't believe that it's difficult to connect things in your mind if you don't experience it. Because you experience it. Also all people in this thread actually learned that no, it's true for other people, and they thought about the difference and how it affects themselves. That is what realizing your sexuality is.
Only you is being nasty to other people's emotions and experiences here.

Time and time again, it becomes clear that this comm is full of emotionally immature people who can't take the slightest bit of criticism. "OMG NO I'M NOT, YOU ARE" sums up the quality of discussion in this chain.

Calling people immature for not agreeing with you doesn't make you mature

You can leave at any time.

You're a narrow, incurious perspective.

I'm asexual, and I genuinely don't understand it either. Maybe it's just because the whole time other people were talking about having sexual attraction, I thought I was having it too. I just thought finding another person attractive enough to want to look at a lot and maybe being vaguely interested in the concept of having sex with them was sexual attraction. It's hard to imagine having no experience that you could mistake for sexual attraction to the point that you think the entire rest of the world is joking.

I'm not asexual, but I can't say I have an obvious physical response to an attractive person on a video, but if they're personally attractive to me, I'd definitely have sex with them if I had the opportunity.

I need to like...think about and fantasize about someone more to actually have a physical response, versus seeing a 2-D image.

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