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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-06-07 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #6363 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6363 ⌋

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[Fullmetal Alchemist]



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06. [WARNING for discussion of incest]




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OP

(Anonymous) 2024-06-08 05:42 am (UTC)(link)
I'm doing pretty ok these days. Helps that I haven't lived with the sibling in question for some time. Occasional nightmares still, but no more getting triggered by some random thing and having a screaming fit. Not really in a position where I can tell anyone in real life about any of it, especially when I haven't figured out how the whole "getting a therapist" business works, but what can you do. Thank you for caring.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2024-06-08 03:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Ofc, so sorry you went through that and happy to hear you're not living with that person anymore. Getting away from the situation and admitting it happened to myself were the most important things in my healing process, so I think you are well on your way. Wishing you luck with being able to find IRL support too.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2024-06-09 04:37 am (UTC)(link)
Admitting it to yourself really is the highest hurdle sometimes. Took me a long time to get past the "I was never raped, so it wasn't really sexual abuse" barrier in my brain. (Didn't help that I was dealing with someone whose favorite tactic was "does thing with blatantly sexual overtones, then gets all mad and acts like you're the weird one for treating it as a sexual violation.") It sounds like you're doing better nowadays, yourself? It sucks that these things have to happen to anyone, but I hope you're doing all right.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2024-06-09 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
OP, I’m sorry you went through this, and I’m glad you’re in a better place in your life. If you ever fall into despair, know that there is a stranger on the internet who loves you and wants nothing but the best for you. I don’t know how much it helps people—-telling them that a random person they’ll never meet, loves them—-but I do it regardless. Even if it only helps one person…

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2024-06-09 04:43 am (UTC)(link)
Aw, you're sweet. Reminds me of a time I was talking on the internet about wanting to kill myself and some random stranger messaged me to check on me and offer resources and a listening ear. I don't remember their username or anything but I still remember them and think about them fondly sometimes. (Don't worry, I'm doing much better now! My life/job situation has stabilized, I have beloved family members nearby to support me, and I'm on medication for depression. Life really does get better sometimes, as it turns out.)