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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-08-22 07:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #6439 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6439 ⌋

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Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2024-08-23 04:40 am (UTC)(link)
Super trite vent, but...

Being ghosted sucks. Granted, it was a one night stand sort of thing, but numbers and (future) schedules were exchanged. And the person was so good looking. So no contact, not even an acknowledgement of my text asking if it was a one off or if they were down to clown again...just stings/bruises my ego.

Obviously, I want to enjoy myself with someone who reciprocates my desires (me for them, them for me), so it's not like I want to convince this person to return or anything (I don't want to convince anyone for that), it's just damn. You've hit my pride, I thought you were feeling me. Maybe even my feelings. You've shattered my delusions and aspirations of being your #1 in this city (because they're a rolling stone, so to speak). I wanna show you off, which makes me feel incredibly juvenile (look! look! look at I caught), and as if I'm seeking validation (this person found me attractive enough to fool around with).

Thanks for the memories, I guess. In B4 this is a person, a another human with feelings, and so on.

BUT DAMN! I've never felt the song " Come Through and Chill" so strongly before....pick up the phone, show me it was real.

lmao because I'll get over this, and I knew very well what the deal was before getting involved. IT'S JUST...WILL I EVER FIND SOMEONE JUST AS, IF NOT MORE, ATTRACTIVE (AND MORE CHEMISTRY) THAN THIS PERSON?! T.T

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2024-08-23 10:01 am (UTC)(link)
Those are very valid normal feelings! I am actually pretty impressed with how mature and in touch with your feelings you are. So many people go with the petty or angry and never move deeper.

Anyway. Sorry this oerson ditched you, I bet you are a catch! Hopefully the next one is even better and you both click.

Re: Vent thread

(Anonymous) 2024-08-23 01:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks, anon! Maybe I'm too in touch with my feelings, lol. I've decided to embrace the (possible delusion?) thought that this person realized/got the feeling I'm a life changing person with a life changing 😺, wasn't ready for that, and thus never contacted me again. Is it true? Who knows. Will it help me sleep at night? Most definitely, lol.

That said, I think I'm just still caught up on the fact that this person was so attractive, the thought that they wouldn't find me attractive enough to hook up again, good enough to meet again, interesting enough to get to know a bit, hurts and bothers me. It's the first time I've ever done something like this too...so the connection wasn't all there and I was in my head quite a bit and was probably a bit awkward...but still.

Thanks, Anon. You're not my therapist, but I appreciate you and your well wishes (I hope for that too)! Hope you have a great day!