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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-10-16 05:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #6494 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6494 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2024-10-16 09:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I hope you take this as the supplement to your point that it's intended to be, but there's something to be said for the inverse of this: "if you can't love somebody else, how in the hell you gonna love yourself"? Sometimes it's knowing that there's someone out there you like and that you want to like you back that sets off the desire to change yourself, and even if your tastes change at the same time, it was still loving someone else that kickstarted everything.

Either way you look at it, how can you be loved, platonically or otherwise, if you yourself don't love?

(Anonymous) 2024-10-16 09:59 pm (UTC)(link)
As someone who has been one-sidedly loved before by someone I did not care about it can totally happen and it's a pain in the ass. I don't think the reverse is remotely comparable.

(Anonymous) 2024-10-16 10:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Are you saying your experience supercedes others? Not trying to pick a fight, just I dont really get your comment.

(Anonymous) 2024-10-16 10:29 pm (UTC)(link)
No, I'm just answering the question posed: "how can you be loved, platonically or otherwise, if you yourself don't love?"

It doesn't really make sense to ask because it's most definitely possible.

(Anonymous) 2024-10-16 10:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Also "for the sake of another person" is a pretty bad reason to seek to change yourself, and kind of sad if someone feels they need the person there for inspiration or else "how the hell you gonna love yourself?"

I get what you're trying to go for but I don't think it worked.

(Anonymous) 2024-10-16 10:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I get what you are saying and I agree. It won't fit for everyone, but there is def truth in what you are saying.