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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2024-10-16 05:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #6494 ]


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(Anonymous) 2024-10-16 09:55 pm (UTC)(link)
I hope you take this as the supplement to your point that it's intended to be, but there's something to be said for the inverse of this: "if you can't love somebody else, how in the hell you gonna love yourself"? Sometimes it's knowing that there's someone out there you like and that you want to like you back that sets off the desire to change yourself, and even if your tastes change at the same time, it was still loving someone else that kickstarted everything.

Either way you look at it, how can you be loved, platonically or otherwise, if you yourself don't love?

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(Anonymous) 2024-10-16 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)
That expression is true for me, too. I think it’s part of why I enjoy so much fiction centered around someone who embraces their otherness and doesn’t let the opinions of others influence them. I was in my 30s before I could do that :(

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(Anonymous) 2024-10-16 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
OP, how is that statement problematic? You're supposed to love yourself. Is anybody arguing with that premise? (serious question.)

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(Anonymous) 2024-10-17 01:44 pm (UTC)(link)
I think every possible bit of self-help advice can be helpful or hurtful depending on your situation. And as such, I don't find a lot of value in "But what about it..." comments. Like, "Drink more water" is pretty much always good advice but will actively hurt you if you're drowning.

If something doesn't work for you, that's fine. And if it does, that's fine too.

I'm glad this thing helped you!
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[personal profile] philstar22 2024-10-17 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
I 100% agree. I loved them. I also liked Hodgins/Angela a lot. Never super into Booth/Brennan, and then the show ruined it.

(Anonymous) 2024-10-17 05:32 pm (UTC)(link)
I agree! Cam was my fave <3

(Anonymous) 2024-10-16 10:00 pm (UTC)(link)
If it makes it any better, a lot of media about teenagers like that is written by wistful adults in a similar place as you. It's why I don't care for media focusing on teenager or 20-somethings anymore.

(Anonymous) 2024-10-16 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
(Presuming you go from old age) you've still got twice as long to live as you've already lived, and all of that with an adult brain to work things out with; you have plenty of time

(Anonymous) 2024-10-17 01:19 am (UTC)(link)
I found myself in my 50s, if it helps at all. I spent years wondering who I was and what was wrong with me, and then it was like one day I looked and there I was. Handle in there. It's not too late at all.

(Anonymous) 2024-10-17 01:29 am (UTC)(link)
I'm in my thirties as well and still figuring myself out. Every year I feel like I'm getting closer to who I'm meant to be. It's never too late, OP.

(Anonymous) 2024-10-17 02:02 am (UTC)(link)
On the one hand I feel you.

On the other, I would not want to be a teenager with most of my life still ahead of me in today's world and the way it's headed. Good luck fixing it for us old folks, kids.

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It's not too late, OP.
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[personal profile] meadowphoenix 2024-10-17 08:39 am (UTC)(link)
i don't think there's any guarantee that anyone has actually figured themselves out. plenty of people think they're settled/stable/enlightened and then encounter something that has them guessing all over again, even in their 70s and 80s.

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I get it

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What? There are Hallmark Halloween movies? Tell me more!

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Love the picture choice!

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(Anonymous) 2024-10-16 10:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Aw I love this. There are not enough supportive parents in media.

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[personal profile] fscom 2024-10-16 09:32 pm (UTC)(link)
NS, NF, etc.

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(Anonymous) 2024-10-16 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)
Any series or shows or games you can think of where the male characters are in as equally skimpy and/or sexualized outfits as the female characters?

*BL series/games of only men don't count

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