[ SECRET POST #6494 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #6494 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

OP, how is that statement problematic? You're supposed to love yourself. Is anybody arguing with that premise? (serious question.)

[akacat]

If I’m remembering correctly, RuPaul was vocally anti-trans at one point. And there’s a faint whiff of “if you can’t love yourself *as you are*” to his statement.

Otoh, I think he’s changed his mind and apologized, and the statement doesn’t actually say you can’t make the changes you need to love yourself, if necessary.

But I’m both guessing and have an iffy memory, so.

[(Anonymous)]

Oh, okay!

[meadowphoenix]

in a general sense, it can lead to the idea that there is some value of self-love only after which you are capable of (healthily?) loving other people, which probably shouldn't be such a broad statement. while self-love issues can definitely harm your partner and your relationships, plenty of people work on themselves in a relationship and haven't reached self-love, but can (healthily) love their partner.