[ SECRET POST #6499 ]

[case]

⌈ Secret Post #6499 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


01.



__________________________________________________



02.



__________________________________________________



03.
[The Cat Has Its Heart on the Outside]



__________________________________________________



04.



__________________________________________________



05.



__________________________________________________



06.



















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 24 secrets from Secret Submission Post #929.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[sparklywalls]

I made most of my online friends who became irl friends on a band forum, but we chatted on MSN and added each other to LJ and stuff so they basically hung out in multiple spaces where I could connect with them. We then arranged meet ups etc.

I'd find that so difficult now because, for me anyway, social media is so fractured and I know some people have meet up with fandom friends via Twitter but I've actually always kinda hated the way you interact with fandom on there so don't really talk to other people.

Idk, there's also the fact I'm older and busier and MSN is dead now so I don't have the energy or method to stay up until 4am talking crap with people half way around the world anymore.

I've got a few regular folk who interact with me on tumblr but that's about it.

[(Anonymous)]

The modern equivalent to MSN is Discord (which I like despite it's issues), but I hate how that's often the only way. There's no forum to meet people -> "home base" of an LJ or something to get to know and individual better -> IMing for private or group conversations. It's all either completely public on one site or completely private on a certain app/program.

[sparklywalls]

Yeah I've not really tried Discord yet myself, perhaps I should, but this definitely fits with my overall feeling. It still doesn't feel quite "right" though for some reason, possibly my personal issues/preferences. There's just no middle space anymore is there? Even with tagging and stuff you can get people barging in deliberately trying to stink up the place (police your fun) whereas forums required some effort if you had to sign up and create topics rather than just ranting in everyone's mentions.

[(Anonymous)]

Good experiences on Discord are a matter of luck, I found my current friend groups through trial-and-error over 5 years, but if people you know or follow have a public server it's a good way to jump in. And I feel you about people stinking up the place, my blog is mostly fandom but I don't have it searchable or post in any of the main tags because people are so aggressive to strangers. Tags on Twitter and Tumblr is more of a museum, but forums and LJ comms felt more like an open dialogue.

[(Anonymous)]

It was AIM for me. I loved exchanging AIM handles and chatting with fandom friends on there. People have told me to try Discord but it's just not the same for me.

[(Anonymous)]

Ironically, people I met in smaller spaces and used to chat with on AIM/Yahoo Pager/Yahoo Messenger/MSN Messenger/ICQ/etc did move to Discord... and then never chatted with me on there (I tried DMing them a few times but the convos were short and they never initiated). Guess I stopped being interesting or something.