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[ SECRET POST #6587 ]
⌈ Secret Post #6587 ⌋
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Re: The bar is in hell...
(Anonymous) 2025-01-18 06:40 am (UTC)(link)But I think most women who have a reasonable amount of exposure to men on an intimate level have met, dated, or at least heard of truly awful stories about personal hygiene and general cleanliness issues. These stories are a dime a dozen. Sadly, examples where men put effort into being clean and presentable until they start dating/get married and then decide that their new girlfriend/wife can be their personal cook and housekeeper are also very common. Glad he's an ex!
Re: The bar is in hell...
(Anonymous) 2025-01-18 03:44 pm (UTC)(link)They express skepticism when someone claims it's all men.
Especially so when the person who keeps attracting these types of men, over and over, doesn't seem to have any self reflection as to why they keep attracting these types of men. But god forbid we talk about that, because it might considered be victim blaming.
Re: The bar is in hell...
(Anonymous) 2025-01-18 07:06 pm (UTC)(link)They express skepticism when someone claims it's all men.
Yeahhhhh... except that in the threads I've personally witnessed, NOBODY CLAIMED IT WAS ALL MEN. And yet, somehow, the "Not All Men!!!!!!" comments came up, along with an attempt at reversing the blame back onto the victim. Classic manosphere talking points, BTW - women get hate for being too picky and having unreasonable standards for dating men (usually the same men making this accusation, funnily enough) and women also get hate for making choices that don't work out (because the troglodytes who didn't get chosen are mad).
So... nah.
Re: The bar is in hell...
(Anonymous) 2025-01-18 07:18 pm (UTC)(link)