[ SECRET POST #099 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #099 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Early because I need to go recharge.

Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 106 secrets from Secret Submission Post #015.
Secrets Not Posted: 0 broken links, 0 not!secrets, 0 not!fandom.
Next Secret Post: Tomorrow, Sunday, April 15th, 2007.
Current Secret Submission Post: Here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sure your lovemaking skills are stellar with an attitude like that.

[grayout.livejournal.com]

*DIES!!*

I'm asexual enough to honestly not even be insulted. Maybe! If it were true that'd be awesome!!

[(Anonymous)]

Oh shi---

ANONYMOUS SNARK ATTACK.

You're so brave :3

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Also, BEST GET-OUT-OF-SEX-FREE CARD EVER. THANK YOU FOR THE INSPIRATION. IM TOTALLY SERIOUS.

[(Anonymous)]

Spoken like someone who has never had sex and will never have good sex. Your attitude makes me laugh. Thanks!

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I don't want to have sex! Sex is gross.

[(Anonymous)]

It's clear you don't want to have sex, but it's far from gross. With the right lover in your bed (not someone like you, I'm afraid) sex is wonderful. I can't think of a better way to spend my time with someone I care about.

[grayout.livejournal.com]

To each their own! I'd rather talk or go hang out somewhere or sit around and play video games with someone I love. Sex just really isn't important to me, and my personal opinion is that it IS gross. Body fluid, whatnot, augh.

[(Anonymous)]

You sound very young. Maybe one day you'll get to experience how fun it can be. I'll wish that for you.

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I'm 20 and asexual. And a guy. I've dated before, but people being all "sexxxxx," "physical closenessssss," "I miss being intimate with youuuuu" all the time made me break up with them. :D

[(Anonymous)]

Yes, you're just a baby. I'm old enough to be your grandmother, boyo. As I said, I'll hope that one day you'll meet someone who can show you how great it can be. Everyone deserves some hot sex at least once in their lives.

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AUGH HOT GRANDMOTHER SEX gakjghaekjhgaekjthgalkejthglakejhgnughhu

[maeda.livejournal.com]

So, er, wait. Just because somebody can admit that genitals are fucking ugly (because 95% of the time, they are), that means that they wouldn't be able to put that aside and pleasure somebody anyway?

[punanamine.livejournal.com]

It's obvious when you've got someone in bed who dislikes their own naughty bits as well as yours. How can someone give good head if they're freaked by what they're paying attention to? And it's obvious (and pathetic) when someone is doing it only because they're supposed to, not because they want to.

[grayout.livejournal.com]

Why's it "pathetic?" Some people just don't like sex. I'm fine with my "naughty bits" being there, I just don't want to look at other people's. Or have anything to do with them. Kind of like, I have no interest in uh, eating frog legs. Is that such a pitiable thing?

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Yeah. I mean, I think it's kind of gross, but I'm not gonna be all EWWWWW at people who DO have sex or people who DO think genitals are nice. I just think they're kind of weird looking.

But then again... why is having sex and also thinking it's gross and/or being squealy and "eww" about it "pathetic?"

This thread is so great, though. I should save it to point people to! "I SUCK AT SEX! DON'T HAVE SEX WITH ME. Please. Ever! :D"

[grayout.livejournal.com]

But thinking something's gross-looking doesn't mean you're afraid of it. Like schizotypal said, people can put that aside for their partners because they ARE their partners... but everyone else falls into "ewww" category.

It's like eating, like you said! Some food looks/smells disgusting but you'll eat it anyway 'cause it tastes good! Doesn't mean you'll go around eating everything that looks/smells disgusting, you know?

[punanamine.livejournal.com]

Thinking sex is gross isn't pathetic. If you'll read my comment you'll see I was addressing the idea that someone can find genitals ugly and still put those feelings aside to pleasure their lover anyway.

People who have sex when they don't like it are pathetic. People who "pleasure" you when they think your bits are gross are pathetic. My point was that it is always obvious to the receiver when someone is doing something they honestly don't like.

Better to be someone like you, and admit you don't want to have sex, then to become someone's lover when you're secretly disgusted by their private parts. That is what I was calling pathetic.

[grayout.livejournal.com]

Oh... okay, I think I see!

But I see that more as like, being nice on their part (I know, "being nice" sounds really weird, but you know what I mean *dies*) and getting over their hang-ups for your sake, and I don't see where the patheticness comes from. I mean, unless they make it obvious BY going "ewww" and stuff -while they're doing it- and then it's not really even putting it aside at all. >>"

[punanamine.livejournal.com]

Being nice in this way doesn't do your lovers any favors, let me assure you. Better not to do it at all than to do it only because you believe you're supposed to.

If you don't like your lover's genitals enough to WANT to give them head, then it's pathetic to do it. One would hope a person wouldn't be lovers with someone unless they can be honest and authentic with them, so if they're only doing it to "be nice," that's pathetic. Sorry!

[maeda.livejournal.com]

I said "realizing that they're fugly", not "freaking out". There's a difference.

[maeda.livejournal.com]

Clarification: Yeah, I understand that it's obvious when someone is doing something because they feel obligated to and not because they want to. But I'm saying that somebody can think genitals are ugly but not give a fuck anyway - this doesn't even have to apply to monogamous couples; it can apply to anyone.

You sound like you're accusing people of not accepting something simply because they find it visually unappealing, and I'm saying that that is not always the case.