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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-07-17 07:30 pm

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Thank you from Mom's Cancer anon from the other night

(Anonymous) 2025-07-18 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
Thanks for the condolences. I mean it. I logged off that night and came back, wanting to thank everyone who sent kind words.

It's... Going to be rough. But I'll be fine in the end.

Re: Thank you from Mom's Cancer anon from the other night

(Anonymous) 2025-07-18 01:06 am (UTC)(link)
I was too late for the discussion that night, but I saw it and my heart goes out to you, anon. Losing a parent is awful, and cancer makes it come so unfairly early. I lost my Dad to esophageal cancer last year.

I know it's no help, but I'll be thinking of you both. It sounds like she has some very loving family. Do you have any other family or friends who can give you some support going forward? This is a lot to process, so please be kind to yourself and don't be afraid to reach out if needed.
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Re: Thank you from Mom's Cancer anon from the other night

[personal profile] philstar22 2025-07-18 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
This. I lost my dad two years ago, faster than we expected (we knew he was on a downward slope, but the actual death was sudden) due to complications from covid and his sarcoidosis. Losing a parent is hard. You need support. And enjoy every moment you can with them. And take care of yourself.

Re: Thank you from Mom's Cancer anon from the other night

(Anonymous) 2025-07-18 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
I live with my family of choice. I'm otherwise estranged from blood family. (LGBT reasons :S) She was pretty much the last.

AYRT

(Anonymous) 2025-07-18 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
Ah, estranged family on my end too. I'm really sorry to hear that, anon. Your Mom's doctors or nurses might be able to provide some good support resources at her appointments in the near future; I was often given some numbers and resources for if I had questions, concerns or just needed a chat and a scream. I'm not sure whereabouts you are, but I really hope you're both given the appropriate support going forward. I hope your chosen family are ready to support, too.

To quote our nurses, if you and your Mom both feel up to it, now is the time to make some memories, even if it's just in small ways. Doesn't have to be anything fantastical; watch a favourite film, share a favourite meal, listen to some music you both love. Every moment I shared with my Dad post-diagnosis, while obviously in a very different light, was so precious.

For what it's worth, if you ever need a good rant, shout out here and I'll be more than happy to give you my Discord or something. <3

Re: AYRT

(Anonymous) 2025-07-18 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
Unfortunately I live over 17 hours away now. :c So memories isn't gonna happen more than it is with phone calls.

That's fine. We all knew her insane luck would have to run out sometime.