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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2025-10-31 06:33 pm

[ SECRET POST #6874 ]


⌈ Secret Post #6874 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Clockwise from left: Gong Jun, Chang Huasen, Li Daikun]




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02.
[The Last Sovereign]



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03. [SPOILERS for True Fear: Forsaken Souls 3, and for The Dark Pictures Anthology: Little Hope]




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04. [WARNING for discussion of noncon]




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05. [WARNING for discussion of CSA]




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06. [WARNING for discussion of pedophilia]




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07. [WARNING for discussion of incest, loli/shota, noncon/dubcon and abuse]





















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 00 secrets from Secret Submission Post #981.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

[personal profile] dani_phantasma 2025-10-31 11:39 pm (UTC)(link)
You realize adults can jokingly or passively self ship without getting crazy about it right? Like some do it for fun after a long day of like doing normal life stuff. Being adult doesn't mean they're serious about it.

It's all about how strong a fantasy vs real life boundary you have. You can be into silly fandom hypothetical stuff and then step away and live your real life. Being an adult doesn't change that or mean you can't have fun anymore.

But hey if i ever encounter you in the wild, I would be delighted to block you. You sound insufferable

(Anonymous) 2025-10-31 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Now if only plenty of adult yume/self shippers didn't give the whole group a bad name. And just because they don't gender their whole real lives around it, a lot of them still are batshit bullies online so... yeah. You sound pretty ignorant of the shittier parts of your fellow self shippers so I guess OP would be lucky if you'd block them.

(Anonymous) 2025-10-31 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
DA.

You say this as if this kind of behaviour is unique to self shippers when it very much isn't. I don't do self-shipping and I've seen this kind of nasty, awful behaviour across my time in fandom because some people are just not any good at sharing the sandbox.

Also it shows your complete immaturity that because there's some assholes in a group it means that the whole lot are bad, which is a child's type of logic

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
It's not immature to block members of a group that annoys you based on bad experiences. I'm not obligated to waste my time with yumes on the off-chance they might be the rare normal ones when I don't want to interact with them or their content anyway. I also block ship tags/stans of ships I dislike and I also block antis. Thats because I AM mature enough to be able to curate my online experience in ways that won't annoy me. I think the vast majority of yumes are cringy and suck. Cry about it, I guess. I have better things to do than give people I want nothing to do with the benefit of the doubt.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 12:31 am (UTC)(link)
And I would block people like you as well, so we're even. Have a nice life.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 12:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Lol you wouldn't even know what to block me for because I'm not an anti, I just quietly block and move on.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 02:48 pm (UTC)(link)
I mean you are, just not against the usual stuff the gun for. Deciding that an entire group of people are 'wrong' for liking something they do is anti behaviour, but I know folks like you don't like to hear that. But have fun with life.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 03:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Nope. Just disliking something and blocking it along with the people who create the content you don't like does not an anti make. This mentality is what makes people go "Waaah I don't even know what an anti IS anymore". YKINMK does not mean "just because you can like what you like doesn't mean I have to want to see it". Nobody has the obligation to humour everyone's shipping preferences. I would not be mad about anyone blocking me for my shipping preferences, I don't know why you seem so offended by this.
As long as you don't attack people for what they like, that's just a boundary. Not being an anti. Learn the difference. It's really not hard.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 06:23 pm (UTC)(link)
That really isn't what an anti is.

Antis are actively against whatever it is they're anti- instead of quietly moving on. That's the defining point of anti-ness. "Choosing to ignore/block something and having people be none the wiser" is what people wish all antis would do, and antis are annoying precisely because they don't.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 12:39 am (UTC)(link)
DA
This, it's hardly unique to them. If anything, it's something I encounter in most other average ships than the little that I've seen from self-shippers.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 04:42 am (UTC)(link)
Well I encountered it more among self shippers. Rabieslevels possibly vary depending on fandom.
And again, I also block certain regular shippers. Hell, I block people for plenty of reasons, several of them petty. But any whataboutism won't change that selfshippers are an auto-block for me.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 02:18 am (UTC)(link)

Why not just paint all shippers with that brush? Saves even more time if you generalize a little further.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 04:35 am (UTC)(link)
If it helps you, you can do that.
Lol lots of butthurt selfshippers ITT. Sorry that you as a group are annoying I guess.

DA

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 05:14 am (UTC)(link)
of course everyone who disagrees with you are just butthurt because THEY selfship. Not because some of us just think your line in the sand seems a little weird.

I don't fault anyone who blocks but.. saying you're more bothered/creeped out by selfshipping then the other actually creepy or weird shit because it's .. idk inherently weirder is just dumb.

Re: DA

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 08:50 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not OP though.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 12:19 pm (UTC)(link)

Weird that you decided I was a “self-shipper”.

“You disagree with me, so you must be this thing I don’t like” is a rather immature attitude.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 01:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Because your reply was the epitome of maturity? "Well others do this thing too so just block EVERYONE why don't you." I generalise because I a)have encountered more than my fair share of unhinged selfshippers and b)can't stand their content/type of shipping. So I block them. You sounded weirdly offended by that so yeah, I assumed (apparently wrongly) that you were one of the group. Too bad, so sad.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 03:44 pm (UTC)(link)

You're right, my crack-of-dawn self is not the most polite or mature version of me. I'm sorry about that, trying to do better.

I was genuinely interested in why you draw the line in this specific place, but I know I didn't voice that well.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 04:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, sorry as well, I'm pretty snappy today myself.
In general, I do indeed block other ships as well. I also block for entirely petty reasons.
I absolutely should have made it clear from the start though that I am in fact not the secret OP so I can't speak for them in any way.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 02:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Not a self-shipper I just think you're a petty child who's trying to pretend that they're not, that's all. It's almost like the way you're behaving is making people not like you.

(Anonymous) 2025-11-01 03:32 pm (UTC)(link)
"Behaving" ...like what, blocking people who I think suck and content I dislike? You're really pressed about this, even if you claim to not be a self-shipper.