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fandomsecrets2026-03-03 04:32 pm
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[ SECRET POST #6997 ]
⌈ Secret Post #6997 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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Re: Personal question: do you have a good relationship with your parents?
When i was living with them as a young adult in my late teens and early twenties it was probably the worst but it looking back I was just as much a nightmare with them as i felt they were to me and a big part of it was because I was coming off a time in my life that was genuinely emotionally traumatic. The first two years after my graduation I remember days I spent sleeping 14 hours a day and wandering the neighborhood feeling almost in a detached daze and occasionally having dark thoughts watching the cars pass.
Then soon after that we MOVED which in the past has not been great for my stress levels. we lived in this TINY ass town and for a while I had a hard time finding a job and my folks thought the best thing to do was to pull an intervention with my electronics like I was addicted and I was honestly like.'I'm a young adult living with my folks in a small town and I cannot drive..and y'all are treating me like an addict for being on my computer online all the time?? seriously?"
we moved a lot since i was young because of where my dad's job took him. and i often had my stress levels spike - which in turn made my OCD symptoms really bad for a time.
but things are better now for the most part. Though since a bad HR manager forced me out of my job last May... well looking for a job has been rough and I have dealt with OCD anxiety centering around my whole family just deciding I'm too much trouble to deal with (obviously this isn't something they've made me feel like but OCD esp when severe is a bitch about things that it knows are your worst fear.. so augh)
Re: Personal question: do you have a good relationship with your parents?
(Anonymous) 2026-03-04 05:28 am (UTC)(link)Re: Personal question: do you have a good relationship with your parents?
Honestly when I was living with dad again at 30 he asked me how I knew my regular online friends weren't all AI or something. I think he was kidding... I hope. When I was an adult he often joked that friends online could be "guys in prison" and I would always tell him I didn't think prison inmates got THAT much freedom.
From my folks perspective I mean They were born in the 60s and when they were raising my siblings and I in the 1990s there were all these dateline shows about creepy people online and stuff about kids groomed in chatrooms so.. I can kind of get where there anxiety and distrust came from even if i didn't agree with it . and honestly by the time I was developing closer friendships with people online it was when I was in my twenties LOL, well past the preferred age range of the creepers on Dateline and To Catch a Predator"
In fact I recall about 4-5 years ago telling my dad "I'm in my 30s. The kind of guys you really gotta worry about aren't even LOOKING at me anymore"