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[ SECRET POST #1174 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1174 ⌋
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(Anonymous) 2010-03-23 09:39 pm (UTC)(link)Re: 147
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Re: 147
(Anonymous) 2010-03-25 08:49 pm (UTC)(link)u mad?
(Anonymous) 2010-03-23 09:49 pm (UTC)(link)Re: 147
(Anonymous) 2010-03-23 10:34 pm (UTC)(link)Re: 147
That aside, "call a spade a spade" is the saying. It's an age-old expression. It had nothing to do with color -- at least, it probably didn't. I'm not the OP, so I wouldn't know.
In any case, the racial slur that you replied to was EXTREMELY uncalled for and offensive.
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(Anonymous) 2010-03-23 10:08 pm (UTC)(link)Re: 147
I'm sorry you live in an area like that, and I don't think those people should get away with it. On the other hand, I don't think you should assume that EVERYONE is doing something like that when they use a cliche -- especially since not all spades are black. Some are silver, and some are coppery. ;) (Talking about garden spades, mind, not the spades are playing cards.)
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(Anonymous) 2010-03-23 10:28 pm (UTC)(link)D: Uh. Why would that shock me?
"Spade" is not a racial slur
Maybe that's why we're not getting each other--spade definitely is a racial slur, has been for a long time. That's what I'm talking about.
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=spade
It would be somewhat like a person making a secret saying "I'm all fagged out on seeing this guy" on a picture of a gay celeb. Sure, "fagged out" means something completely innocent, but... yyyeah.
Re: 147
Thanks for letting me know. Sorry if I sounded insensitive/like a jerkass before. /: But wow, and here I thought OP was just being a jerkass by ragging on her weight. Nice to know that he/she is not only a jerkass, but a racist jerkass to boot. xP
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(Anonymous) 2010-03-23 10:43 pm (UTC)(link)We can both agree on the OP, though. Yikes.
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Regarding the actual secret. I haven't seen anyone glorify her weight, OP. Saying someone is pretty and/or a good actress doesn't mean that she couldn't be healthier. Do you expect them to say "Oh what a fatty!" every time she's mentioned? I certainly hope not.
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(Anonymous) 2010-03-23 11:16 pm (UTC)(link)Re: 147
(Anonymous) 2010-03-23 11:05 pm (UTC)(link)I did not know spade" was racist, neither did numerous people in this thread and I find it SICKENING that people are reinforcing it as a racist term...and others (you) are just letting it happen.
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(Anonymous) 2010-03-23 11:11 pm (UTC)(link)Re: 147
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Different words have different connotations depending on where you go. For instance, in England "fag" means cigarette and isn't used as a derogatory term toward homosexuals at all. That doesn't mean that it's not a slur in America. I'd never heard "spade" used as a slur before, but that doesn't mean that it's not a slur in other areas -- and who says that the OP didn't know that it was? If this was a non-offensive secret to begin with, I'd have more faith in the OP, but given the fact that the OP was already acting like a jerkass, I have little reason to give the OP the benefit of the doubt.
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