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Edited 2011-03-30 20:35 (UTC)

Sorry, nothing constructive to add except that is a super cute picture of them!

(But also, I'm sorry about your situation. I hope your girl comes around eventually.)

this just in: no matter how much you might want to, you cannot "turn people gay." Of course, this point is moot if your friend in question is bi, but regardless. You will probably be waiting for a long time, so why not turn your attention elsewhere?

i know, that's the problem. she had indicated wanting more, had said she was into me but then said she was straight. she kept flirting til i got the hint, we hooked up a few times, then we stopped hanging out. we talk occasionally now but not about anything important.

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Maybe she was just bicurious and then realized she wasn't really into women? I once thought I felt vaguely attracted to women, but after actually trying it I realized it was more on the level of 'oh, she's pretty' than 'oh, I wanna have sex with her'. Also, it's possible to flirt with someone and even date them for a while without being in love or having any interest in a serious relationship. Sometimes you just flirt and hook up a little to see how it goes. And sometimes you realize that you aren't all that interested in the person anymore.

I know it hurts when someone gives you hope and then dumps you. But it happens. It does not mean that your friend is in denial about your true love. Get over it.

1. "I want you to realize how important I am to you."
2. "I'd give you the chance to make us work"

1. OMG, not everything is about YOU.
2. Maybe that's a chance your FRIEND doesn't want. Because maybe your FRIEND isn't interested in more.

Get over yourself.

my friend was very interested in me. constant flirting, naughty texts and pics. she just thinks shes straight.

she just thinks shes straight.

But you'd know better amirite? Maybe being with you was a phase or experiment and it's over now. Do yourself a favor and accept it.

sigh, you just want to be nasty, don't you?

Perhaps a little blunt but no more nasty than anyone else that's been saying the exact same thing. OP is acting entitled to this girl's affection, which, she's not.

Your friend is/was probably confused. I'm sorry, but it happens. People experiment sometimes; sexuality can be a bitch to figure out.

And whether or not she is straight, if it hasn't worked after all of that, chances are it's not going to work period. You're better off trying to find someone else. You're not doing yourself any favors by getting hung up on someone who doesn't sound like she knows what she wants.

Missing the point, but in what way is Artie bad for Brittany? Just because he's in the way of Brittana twu wuv?

Not the op and this has almost nothing to do with the secret, really, but I think it's frustrating for me that while I'd like Santana to be happy with Brittany, Artie seems like a generally decent guy...albeit a total jerk sometimes (depends on the writing/episode), but so is Santana. So I wouldn't mind seeing Santana happy with another girl instead if they stay together.

Then again, I keep feeling like Artie and Tina will eventually get back together. And sometimes the whole thing is thrown because Brittany is written as female Ralph Wiggum often, so thinking of her with anyone is a bit creepy - but it's a surreal show, after all.

artie constantly treats the girls he dates like dirt. he consistantly treated tina badly last year and i haven't watched most of this season, but i've heard that he also treats brittany badly.

I think you're tweaking their situation to mirror your own. Brittany did give Santana a chance, early on. Santana kept shooting her down. Now Brittany's in a happy relationship with a guy who loves her and makes her happy. It's sucks for Santana, but it's also selfish of her to expect Brittany to drop the relationship because now she's ready. People don't work like that.

That's said, I hope your own situation works out. Though going from the comments, isn't it possible that after hooking up, she came to the realization that she really just isn't gay or bi, or even just that it's not the kind of relationship she wants with you? That happens too. If she "thinks" she's straight...she just might be straight.

Came here to say all of this

i appreciate the response, and understand what youre saying, and I'm definitely over simplifying. there is plenty of evidence for her not being straight outside of what i have mentioned. ridiculous amounts, even. but, you could be right. i did just want to defend myself a bit.

You know, there's also the other, maybe even more hurtful possibility ... she does like women, but she just doesn't want to be in a relationship with YOU. And if she is bi, hooking up with guys doesn't mean she's in denial either, but just that, well, right now she likes guys.

I've been on both sides of that. Not a fun place to be. My sympathies.

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