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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-07-20 08:50 pm

[ SECRET POST #1660 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1660 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2011-07-21 04:40 am (UTC)(link)
My friends and I mock shit we don't like all the time. If they were doing it in private, it's really none of your business. And unless they acted nice to your face while they were mean in private, it wasn't behind your back, it was just private.

And I don't think them not saying it to your face was a lack of bravery, they probably just didn't feel the need to break your fragile little heart, since private mocking amongst friends is done for fun rather than drama.

I don't doubt there are people who snark my stuff in private either. It just doesn't bother me and I'll never see it unless they bring it to my attention to start drama.

(Anonymous) 2011-07-21 04:47 am (UTC)(link)
Oh, and before anyone self-righteously replies that they never have because they're a 'good person' or some bull, note that watching a shitty movie with friends to laugh about it is the same. If you see nothing wrong with laughing over shitty movies or tv shows but think it makes someone "creepy, immature and insane" to laugh over bad fanfic, you're probably projecting insecurity.

[identity profile] lulzatyou.livejournal.com 2011-07-21 04:51 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, pretty much this. If they were mocking the OP privately, it was not meant for their ears anyway. Sucks that they found it, but OP needs to build a proverbial bridge and get over themselves.
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[identity profile] dentedsky.livejournal.com 2011-07-21 05:00 am (UTC)(link)
It is not the same at all. One is bashing a movie for an hour or so and the other is singling someone out and bashing them for months!

And how could it have been in private if she found out about it? Bashing 'in private' could be in a private chat room, but I bet these anons didn't give a shit about censoring their conversations.

My friends and I mock shit we don't like all the time.

You're not a nice person, anon.

(Anonymous) 2011-07-21 05:08 am (UTC)(link)

You're not a nice person, anon.


Why? For thinking badfic/badart is humorous? For laughing about it in private chats with friends?

(Anonymous) 2011-07-21 05:12 am (UTC)(link)
Well, aren't you judgmental? :) I'm just bonding with my friends and having fun in private.

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(Anonymous) 2011-07-21 05:13 am (UTC)(link)
Then I think it's fair to say you're an oversensitive twatwaffle. And hey, I'm saying to your face, even!

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(Anonymous) 2011-07-21 05:11 am (UTC)(link)
You're not a nice person, anon.

...And your point is...?

(Anonymous) 2011-07-21 05:46 am (UTC)(link)
Ha, an anonymous conversation posted online that can be (if not readily) accessed by others including the subject? Doesn't sound so private to me, even by the screwy standards of privacy we go by on the Internet. That's more like the usual "I want to talk shit but I don't want to put my name on it" dealSticking to a single topic for months at a time doesn't strike me as merely a bout of playful snarking either, especially not if it also veers into personal insults. That sounds like a group of people with a grudge, and yes, a penchant for drama. Hey, you and I can have a "private" bitchfest about someone right now! After all, if they don't follow FS what are the chances they'll ever see it, right? We're just having fun, yeah?

(Anonymous) 2011-07-21 05:50 am (UTC)(link)
OP never specified where the criticism was posted. It could have been behind someone's flock. So if OP dug their way into it, then no, it wasn't meant for them to see, and it's on OP for snicking their nose where it didn't belong.

(Anonymous) 2011-07-21 05:58 am (UTC)(link)
I find that unlikely. For one thing, if this is LJ (and it seems to be), generally the only time people feel the need to go anon is in a public space, be it a meme or a community like FS. Would you go anon on a private friends-locked journal? "A group of anonymous" seems to suggest an anonmeme, in which case there is hope that at least some of them are trolls.

DA

(Anonymous) 2011-07-21 01:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Anyone who goes reading anonmemes is a fool if they're surprised by snarking. If OP found their group of haters in a place like that, chances are OP was there to do the exact same thing they were.

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[identity profile] lulzatyou.livejournal.com 2011-07-21 02:34 pm (UTC)(link)
MTE. OP found what they sought, or found it while engaging in similar behavior. Either way, I'm not about to have any sympathy for them.

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(Anonymous) 2011-07-21 08:00 pm (UTC)(link)
I smell projection.

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[identity profile] poisontea.livejournal.com 2011-07-21 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Not surprised by snarking, but it can still hurt, especially if anons get really vicious. Personally, I go to some anon memes (from roleplaying, not fanfiction, but the point still stands) because sometimes there's good, fun discussion, and on rare occasion there's even good criticism from people who don't feel comfortable for one reason or another approaching a player on their HMD. There are other reasons to go to an anon meme besides wanting to participate in wank.

(Anonymous) 2011-07-21 05:51 am (UTC)(link)
Hey, you and I can have a "private" bitchfest about someone right now! After all, if they don't follow FS what are the chances they'll ever see it, right? We're just having fun, yeah?

Yes, actually we can. No, they won't. And yes, we totally are. Took you long enough to get it, lol.

(Anonymous) 2011-07-21 05:59 am (UTC)(link)
Why, you should keep on believing that. Innocence is so rare these days.

(Anonymous) 2011-07-21 06:01 am (UTC)(link)
You would have to be the innocent one not to realize I'm mocking the fuck out of you. But keep it up, this shit's hilarious.

(Anonymous) 2011-07-21 06:03 am (UTC)(link)
Glad to be of service.

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[identity profile] megalomaniageek.livejournal.com 2011-07-21 08:14 am (UTC)(link)
Internet is not "private." JFC. Otherwise OP wouldn't know about it.
HTH

(Anonymous) 2011-07-21 01:47 pm (UTC)(link)
You're right. The internet is not private. In which case, if OP is so sensitive that a group of asshats snarking about OP's fanfiction is enough to induce a years-long freakout and a desire to hunt them down and inflict physical violence on them, maybe OP would be better suited to keeping their tender hotbuttons in a more private arena.

[identity profile] megalomaniageek.livejournal.com 2011-07-21 06:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Look, I know the internet is a public place (hence my comment) and posting your work in a public place opens it up for criticism. I'm not arguing that, and I'm not really interested in getting into the completely subjective and often-pointless internet criticism etiquette argument.

I'm just boggling at people who honestly seem to think that posting in a public forum is somehow the same as privately snarking.

(Anonymous) 2011-07-21 06:37 pm (UTC)(link)
how do you know it was on a public forum

[identity profile] megalomaniageek.livejournal.com 2011-07-21 06:41 pm (UTC)(link)
Because otherwise how did OP find it?
I find it highly unlikely OP somehow hacked into a series of flocked snark entries, and if it was flocked why on earth would the commenters be anon? It seems likely from the description that it was some kind of anon meme. Which is public so anonymous people can post in it.

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