[ SECRET POST #1721 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1721 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 07 pages, 168 secrets from Secret Submission Post #246.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 (triggery) - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 0 - repeats ], [ 1 - personal attack ]
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom.livejournal.com]

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[(Anonymous)]

Are you me? (aside from thinking I'm pretty, because I don't think I am at all). But what you said here reflects on my life so much.
ot: love the fanart used here.

[wldcatsprstr-14.livejournal.com]

Watch the movie again. Danny loves her the way she is the whole time. He doesn't ask her to change; she chooses to. So you don't have to change if you don't want to and someone will love you the way you are. Don't let people get you down with their BS.

[kallanda-lee.livejournal.com]

(http://s1227.photobucket.com/albums/ee424/Kallanda_Lee/?action=view&current=tumblr_lhiaowhvy11qe7mo5.png)

[smittenlotus.livejournal.com]

Well said. Don't change yourself to attract the attention of other people who aren't worth it, OP. You won't be happy in the end and neither will anyone else.

[velvet-mace.livejournal.com]

I always thought that the problem wasn't that she wasn't putting out, but that she didn't fit in with her new crowd, and they thought she was looking down on them. She succumbed to peer pressure and changed her look.

I kind of wish she hadn't gone so radically different. Obviously, Danny loved her, and she was a good influence on him (he was the only one to graduate thanks to the PE credit). And you know what, even though they gave her a hard time, the other greeser girls did make friends with her.

Actually though what bothered me most wasn't the spray-on pants and the dripping make up, but the fact that she took up smoking to be cool. Way to pick up a bad habit.

[zikadee.livejournal.com]

This is one of the reasons I dislike this movie. Hated the ending, because nobody liked her until she conformed even though she was so sweet and wonderful to start with.

[(Anonymous)]

I just wish I was pretty enough to be the 'make-over Sandy'. But I know that even if I 'sexed myself up', people still wouldn't be interested in me. :(

[vethica.livejournal.com]

Can I ask for a link to this fanart? My image-finding skills are failing me.

[allstarzs.livejournal.com]

Really? I don't even know how to respond to this.

[(Anonymous)]

You know what? I'm very much the same way, and I've managed to find awesome friends (though my love life sucks) who don't mind those things about me at all. Maybe I just got lucky or something, but don't despair, there are people out there who will like you for who you are. Personally, I think you sound awesome.

[vivalana.livejournal.com]

I have many friends who are like Sandy, pre-makeover. I have a separate group of friends for drinking buddies, just like I have a different group of friends for my film interests, and another group of friends for gaming. Of course, there's some overlap amongst the three and you can compartmentalize forever and yaddah yaddah.

What I'm trying to say is that people are diverse, both as types and the "types" they perform, depending on the situation.

I think part of the problem is that pre-Sandy was an introvert, which sometimes can be a barrier to meeting new people.

[(Anonymous)]

I drink very rarely, don't wear revealing clothes and am a virgin, and I've managed to have friends who have very different lifestyles but don't judge me for who I am. As long as you're not judging them for their choices, it's not really an issue, it's an excuse.

[(Anonymous)]

OP, don't conform to other people's expectations. Trust me, as someone who's been through drastic changes, it's not worth it. Just be who you are and you'll be a happier person.

[(Anonymous)]

If you can't find a single person who likes you, I guarantee the problem has nothing to do with those traits you listed about yourself.

[mutantjules.livejournal.com]

dude, no! Just be you.

[(Anonymous)]

I've been both sides of the coin, and they both suck to be in, IMO.

[lazzchan.livejournal.com]

I'll join the party with 'just be you' because if you force yourself to be something you're not just to fit in or please someone else, it's not going to make you happy and it'll show to other people. Don't ever be ashamed for who you are! The world doesn't need to drink all the time or party or do a number of things that the 'new Sandy' seems to show. Original Sandy was just fine and your friends should care for you as you are, not as someone that they 'think you should be'.

[tidalcat19.livejournal.com]

OP, I always liked "Good Girl" Sandy better than "Bad Girl" Sandy, and would love to go out with a girl that sweet.

Don't worry. You'll find someone who will like you for you. If you have to slap on a catsuit to get some guy to notice you, then he's not worth it.

[velvet-mace.livejournal.com]

There are lots of people who would like to be your friend without getting into your pants. Especially among nerds, teetotalling is pretty normal, wild parties are not so much. Find some interest you have and bond with people over that rather than trying to change yourself.

As for lover, would you really want one who was only interested in you because he could get into your pants? I met my husband through my hobbies. I was his friend for years before we dated. Sex doesn't have to come first.

[(Anonymous)]

Oh, OP. There are others like you out there who have friends/lovers. You definitely don't need to compromise yourself.

[relmneiko.livejournal.com]

The reason people didn't like Sandra D. at first was because they thought she was stuck-up. I can't tell a lot about you from one secret, but honestly it kinda makes me think you are too. Why not try having a few drinks and going to a party once? You don't have to get SMASHED, just a bit tipsy. See how you like it. Unless idk, there's alcoholics/addicts in your family and they've turned you off the whole idea for good there's no reason not to try it out. Or go to a party and don't drink, whatever - you can still meet people. It's TRUE - you won't make friends if you don't change yourself because if you're shy and not going to parties in the first place then you'll miss out on meeting LOADS of people.

Try some sexy clothes just once: borrow them from a friend to try. That shit is so not on the same level as losing your virginity, just fucking do it. And if you don't like it then fine, now you've experienced it and you know. And nobody even has to know if you're a virgin if you're not dating them. It's none of their business. Unless, of course, you're waving your virginity around as a flag of "I'M A PURE AND MODEST GIRL."

[(Anonymous)]

Also, just want add that pushing yourself to be, hmm, overtly sexual when you're not comfortable with that probably isn't going to end well. I'm like Original Sandy to some degree as well, tried a bit of New!Sandy but didn't like just getting that kind of attention.

Trust me, there are plenty of people who would take Original Sandy over New Sandy any day. You shouldn't have to compromise your values to experience a relationship.

[netbug009.livejournal.com]

IDK what movie this is, but you're beautiful the way you are and - even if it takes a bit longer to find him - you'll have a much more meaningful relationship with somebody who likes you for YOU.

[cinnamonlace.livejournal.com]

I used to think that way, but doing whatever you want is much more fun.