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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-11-19 03:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #1782 ]

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(Anonymous) 2011-11-19 09:18 pm (UTC)(link)
I'll just let a gay man answer that.

Much has been said on the subject of how to prepare a guy for anal penetration. Many a rant has been raved in response to stories that don't include (in the ranter's view) enough prep action. The "one finger, two fingers, three fingers, dick" has pretty much become de rigeur in slash. Well, kids, it ain't necessarily so.

The need for careful stretching and loosening depends on a lot of things. How relaxed the guy is, the level of trust between the parties involved, experience, and alcohol level are just a few. Some guys need the whole shebang, from tongue to fingers to large envelopes full of cash before they're ready for action. Others require only the most cursory of preparation, such as dropping their pants. Judicious application of the tongue can make the most apprehensive of butts eager and willing.

So if you want to go the whole hog, and describe in loving detail how each finger slips in, go right ahead. But when the guys are hot and the pace is frantic, feel free to cut right to the chase...

(Anonymous) 2011-11-19 10:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Was that Minotaur?

THANK you.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-19 11:00 pm (UTC)(link)

I can't say how much I *HATE* it when fanon (in this case general fanon of guys having buttsex) starts establishing rules about how things are to be done.
Especially if it's born from hearsay and lack of experience.

I'd say at least half of the girls who themselves have had anal sex before aren't half as anal (lol) about the whole lube&preparation-thing.

Sure it CAN be painful without. But reading endless paragraphs of mechanical sphincter-stretching can be painful, too.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-19 11:38 pm (UTC)(link)
I find the gendering in this discussion so weird, given the percentage of straight people (and lesbians) who engage in anal sex. It's... not uncommon, and anal sex is anal sex.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-20 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
Well, the OP specified slash, so to me that = m/m. But yeah, anal is popular with all orientations. I'd like to see more of it in het fic, personally. LOTS more.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-20 04:36 am (UTC)(link)
Me too, and not always with the female as the bottom.

(Het rimming with the woman doing the licking, PLEASE! Uuuuuunf!) I'm a woman who really likes doing this TO someone IRL, and would love to see more of it in fic.