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[ SECRET POST #1836 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1836 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Star Wars: the Old Republic]

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[seth macfarlane]

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[John Saul/Stephen King]

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[Honey, I Shrunk the Kids!]

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[Cassandra Cain & Tim Drake (Batman)]

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[David Archuleta]

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[Ran to Haiiro no Sekai]

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[Black Lagoon]

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[Terra Nova]

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[Digimon]

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[Transformers: Animated]

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[Gerard Butler/Emmy Rossum]

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[Panic! at the Disco]

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[todd and the book of pure evil]

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[Death Note]

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[Rocky]

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[Bomb Girls]

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[Once Upon a Time]

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[Dexter]

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[Alexei Yagudin]

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 3 4 5 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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[Death Note]

I know I shouldn't make assumptions but this secret worries me. What exactly is "Kira" hiding from the world here? Because this sounds scary.

MTE. I really hope it's all in OP's head and they don't seriously have a relationship with someone who is potentially/really is dangerous. And I really would not hope OP would be happy about that.

Yeah, this.

mte

Anyone else remember the saga (well two) 'I'm the Kira to your Misa' secrets?

This is my f!s otp.

just in case: if your SO is a serial killer and you condone it, maybe you should rethink your life.

So... your boyfriend's a megalomaniac murderer who doesn't love you and isn't even particularly interested in having sex with you, cheats on you, and is willing to sacrifice your life for his own ends, and you're his devoted bimbo?

Well, have fun with that.

But seriously, if associating your relationship with the manga is just your way of coping with the fact that you're in love with a bad person who's physically/emotionally/mentally/all-of-the-above abusive, you should consider getting help. Even online chat support to help talk you through what's going on can be very helpful.

wasn't Light just using Misa for his own gain though (I think)? you're totally happy with that kind of one sided relationship?

Yes, he was. And Misa was perfectly okay with that. That was like the first thing she said to him, actually.

Is your SO killing people or planing to kill people? That's fucked up. Call the police.

If not, I can't see the comparison. You're a nutter.

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*sllooowly backs away*

Have you considered seeing a psychiatrist, if this is even slightly true-to-fiction? Because really, I don't want to see you or your Kira ending up as they do in the series. You know, dead.

I don't believe you

I'm the OP.

My SO is not a serial murderer, nor does he have plans to murder anyone. Just to clarify.

It's more the one sided affection, dedication, coupled with manipulation that I relate to. I think if people knew how he treated me behind closed doors, they wouldn't want to be around me anymore... That's the gist of it.

Thanks for the advice about seeking support online. I wouldn't know where to look, though.

Apologies for any confusion I've created... Very sorry.

Maybe this would make a good start?

http://thepsychopath.freeforums.org/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-and-learning-to-let-go-f43.html (http://thepsychopath.freeforums.org/leaving-an-abusive-relationship-and-learning-to-let-go-f43.html)

Ultimately, it's up to you whether or not you want to leave this catastrophe of a relationship, but considering it a wonderful thing...really isn't a wonderful thing.

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megalomaniageek.livejournal.com - 2012-01-13 05:20 (UTC) - Expand

You deserve to be loved. And I think your friends would side with you over him, after all, he's the one treating you badly, and not vice-versa.

*hugs op*

Ok, I have had family members suffer from abusive relationships so this is near and dear to my heart, sorry if I ramble!

It's very natural for people in a abusive relationships (whether emotional or otherwise) feel dependent. My favorite aunt was in one herself, and only found the strength to leave when her husband almost hit their eldest daughter. It's a tough thing, and the abuser plays so many mind games that to wake up and walk out is about the only thing you can do to be healthy again.

If you trust and love your friends, or have family you feel will support you, I suggest utilizing that resource as a rallying system. Love only feeds the soul and makes life better when it's healthy, otherwise you can find yourself losing pieces of yourself into you don't know who YOU are anymore. Misa was a popular girl who lost everything, I don't want you to end up the same way OP.

My aunt who I mentioned has a pretty awesome life many (many) years later, is a highly paid consultant in her field and has recently had a lot of fun dying her hair blond and going on a tour of the wine country and blogging about it under a character name she invented for her newly-blond self. ;) This is years later, and she is one of the most fun and life-loving people I know, even while recovering from a dangerous form of cancer. She has always been a strong person, she just had to discover that for herself.

So don't let yourself think this is the end of anything except a poisonous relationship. Think of it as going on a exciting new adventure with who-knows-what in the future.

It's him they shouldn't want to be around. He sounds abusive. Get rid of him, OP.

Like, he's a serial killer? Because...IDK. I'm pretty much only okay with that in fiction. Though if you wanted to murder him in an overly dramatic way, as payment for all the lives he's taken, I actually sort of love reading stories like that in the newspaper.

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billybobfred0.livejournal.com - 2012-01-13 06:46 (UTC) - Expand

OP, I think it's time to re-evaluate your priorities in life.

If you compare your relationship to that of Misa's and Light's, something's definitely wrong. That relationship was nowhere near healthy, or something to aspire to. And as it happens, very much one-sided. I find it hard to believe a relationship like that could satisfy anyone who wants to be loved.

Your friends see his "Kira" parts for a reason, not because they want you to be unhappy. They gave him a chance, because that's what caring friends do, but he failed to meet their expectations. You may very well lose your friends, but only because they don't want to see you hurt. It's painful to watch a loved one suffer, y'know.

I hope you get the help you need before it's too late.

you realize that Light doesn't care one whit about Misa, right?

I hope to god you're trolling, because if you're not... OP, you need out of that relationship, now. Because if your boyfriend is truly like Light, then he despises you, is using you for his own gain, and would kill you in a heartbeat if he thought it might bring him an advantage.

If you were anything like Misa you wouldn't realize that your relationship was like Misa's and Light's.

For that reason, I call troll.