[ SECRET POST #1848 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1848 ⌋


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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Actually I'd also admit that the idea of a boyfriend who can sometimes be jealous or overprotective is sort of romantic/alluring as well. (But I'm sure in real life it would get tiring really quickly.)

[(Anonymous)]

There it is - the distinction between 'idea' and 'reality' is really important here.

I have a pretty big jealousy kink in (fan)fiction. In real life, having a jealous partner (even if they don't meet any of the other creeper twilight criteria) is a serious annoyance at best. Because really, when your partner is that jealous? It means they are extremely insecure on the one hand, and that they don't trust and respect you to make your own decisions on the other. It's a double whammy of awfulness.

[uglynoodles.livejournal.com]

I way get you on the jealousy in fanfiction. I totally dig that.

Sometimes in real life it can be a motivating reaction to starting the relationship -- "I better tell her how I feel or else he'll get to do it first and then I'll have lost any chance!" kind of thing which is fine, but once you're there and in an actual real relationship jealousy and overprotective crap is fucking bullshit and disrespectful.

Nothing beats the time an ex told me I couldn't talk to anyone with a penis or go anywhere but to and from work without him. It blew his fucking mind when I told him I also like girls. He then told me I couldn't have any friends -- Because you know I'd obviously fuck them all.

[lovelycudy.livejournal.com]

This. I love jealousy in fiction. In reality, it was one of the reasons I broke up with my ex (that and the controlling tendencies).

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, this.

In real life it isn't fun at all and most people realize that as soon as they end up in this kind of situation, but it's totally natural fantasize about it when you've never had it.