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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-04-13 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #1928 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1928 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-04-14 02:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, I have. They hate demons, ghosts, witches, ghouls, vampires, shapeshifters, wendigos, rugarus, leviathan, dragons, fairies, leprechauns, changelings, skinwalkers....

Not women. They like women, love women, have female friends, respect female hunters.

Try again, with more proof and less misplaced outrage.

[identity profile] curseangel.livejournal.com 2012-04-14 02:23 pm (UTC)(link)
lol right. NEWSFLASH: Misogyny isn't just about "hating women." You can say you fucking love women all day long and still be a disgusting misogynist (and Dean does a lot of it!).

Dean condescends to women, pervs on them, leers at them, objectifies them, calls them "honey" and "sweetheart" like an asshole when he doesn't even know them, treats them like shit that's there for his entertainment, and on and on. He treats them as lesser and less skilled automatically. Oh, and let's not even start on how he and Sam act in "The Slice Girls" because the TOMES I could write on that disgustingly sexist fucking piece of shit episode... well.

I mean, for fuck's sake. You pretty much either have to have no clue what misogyny even is (as you seem to) or have never actually watched the show to miss it. It's not exactly hidden.

(Anonymous) 2012-04-14 02:27 pm (UTC)(link)
how he and Sam act in "The Slice Girls"'

What, you mean their disgust and outrage after the woman steals his sperm to make a baby? Oh yeah, that's totally unjustified.

Dean's an asshole, yes, but he doesn't think women are lesser creatures. He puts them on a pedestal, reveres them. He's got mommy issues. His favorite woman is his dead mother who was taken away from him, and no woman will measure up to her. You can see in his eyes, when he's confronted with her ghost.

[identity profile] curseangel.livejournal.com 2012-04-14 02:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Their disgust and outrage towards all of the Amazons, calling them basically crazy b*tches, etc. etc. yeah. Not to mention that ENTIRE episode was sexist as fuck from conception to the last minute. Oh yeah, and the part where Sam shoots a three-day-old girl for the ~crime of doing what she was told to do, and this is presented as a reasonable and logical reaction to the situation.

Dean's an asshole, yes, but he doesn't think women are lesser creatures.

YOU DON'T HAVE TO THINK WOMEN ARE POND SCUM TO BE A MISOGYNIST. Do you have difficulty reading?

He puts them on a pedestal, reveres them.

Really? I don't remember him doing a lot of "revering" of the many, MANY women he's paid attention to explicitly based on their physical appearances! Also, putting women on a pedestal can be just as sexist and gross as thinking they're all disgusting, just fyi. Expecting women to be ~perfect angelic beings~ is also sexist.

His favorite woman is his dead mother who was taken away from him, and no woman will measure up to her.

AND THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT AT ALL RIGHT

You can see in his eyes, when he's confronted with her ghost.

In, what, one clip in the middle-ish of the first bloody season? Wow. You really are reaching. Holy shit.

Also, yeah, comparing every woman ever to your dead mother and finding them wanting because they're not ~perfect like her? (Which I don't even think Dean does, but we'll go off of your thoughts here.) Is really sexist and incredibly fucking creepy.

(Anonymous) 2012-04-14 02:45 pm (UTC)(link)
A group of people who solicit sex from strangers for the purposes of breeding an army of children who are trained to go out and kill their own fathers, who are unaware of their existance. I think "crazy bitch" applies. Sam shot a creature who was going to kill his brother. That's the entire basis of the show. You can't throw "three-day-old" in there and expect it to mean anything in context, when the three-day-old was a teenager who could talk and had knife skills.

Do you have difficulty reading?

Do you? I was responding to this comment you made:

"He treats them as lesser and less skilled automatically."

Lesser. Your word, not mine.

In, what, one clip in the middle-ish of the first bloody season?

And Dark Side of the Moon, when she's acting all domestic and he's a wide-eyed 4 year old again.

[identity profile] curseangel.livejournal.com 2012-04-14 10:44 pm (UTC)(link)
So killing children on television is okay if they make a token attempt to justify it, shiny! Wow. So is blatant and disgusting sexism, including using slurs! You're certainly a font of knowledge.

Uh huh. Still doesn't work for me, but hey, I'm not the one defending sexism and er. Being really fucked up about Dean's relationship with his mother tbh, so...
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2012-04-14 05:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Wow, so, noticing a woman's attractive is *misogynistic*. Okay. Has Dean ever forced himself on a woman? Has he ever walked up to one and said 'nice rack, baby!' and slapped her on the ass? Has he ever said 'women are nothing but sex toys and food-makers, go back to the kitchen, bitch!' or anything along those lines?

Appreciating an attractive person - like every single fangirl does daily, with pictures and porny fic - is not misogyny, nor is it sexism.

(Anonymous) 2012-04-14 06:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you.

I abhor double standards. Most of the people who label Dean as a misogynist wouldn't give a crap if he were a woman doing the same thing.

It's great that women are growing more confident in expressing their desires and attraction towards the opposite sex, but it's so stupid that when men do so now they're told they're misogynistic and sexist.

In an earlier F!S post, there was a comment by a male user saying that he was bashed on an SPN comm for saying he liked Jo's tits and wanted to sleep with her. =/ If it'd been a girl saying that she wanted to jump on Sam's probably massive cock, or commenting on the deliciousness Dean's ass and bow legs, I doubt anyone would have been so outraged.

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[personal profile] tabaqui 2012-04-14 08:37 pm (UTC)(link)
This. Saying i wanna jump Dean's bones and isn't he pretty when he hurts and whoooo, yeah, Sam's tied up!! is all cool but Dean saying a cute, flirty waitress is cute is...misogyny.

I've hated it since it first started and the Dean!hate got so damn loud you couldn't hear much else.

[identity profile] curseangel.livejournal.com 2012-04-14 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, you're right, there's ABSOLUTELY NO DIFFERENCE between a man treating a woman like an object and a commodity and a woman saying positive sexual things about a man!

Oh wait. No, there's a HUGE FUCKING DIFFERENCE you ignorant, sexist jerk. Like, several thousand years of objectification, commodification, degradation, and oppression worth of difference.
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[personal profile] tabaqui 2012-04-14 11:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Object and commodity. Dean's selling women now? Wtf are you talking about. And i dunno if you've visited a kink meme lately, but the men are being pretty damn objectified over there.

[identity profile] curseangel.livejournal.com 2012-04-14 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)
lol WOW are you stupid. Seriously, do I need to define what it means to objectify or commodify a woman now? Because that's pretty 101, no-shit-Sherlock stuff, but apparently you're actually as dumb as a rock-- if rocks could be sexist.

And lol. Oh NOES, men are being OBJECTIFIED on A SITE on the INTERNET! This is surely horrific and totally comparable to the institutionalized, normalized way society and men objectify, commodify and oppress women! OH WAIT.

Wow you're. Actually. Really disgustingly sexist. I'm out now, cos I just ate and you're making me sick, you stupid fuck.

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[identity profile] veronica-rich.livejournal.com 2012-04-15 04:48 am (UTC)(link)
Tony Stark's not misogynistic? Just wondering.

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[identity profile] curseangel.livejournal.com 2012-04-14 10:48 pm (UTC)(link)
God, I just love how all you creepers try to justify your sexism and defense thereof by deciding to set your own limited, small-minded blinders on what does and does not constitute sexism. Guess what: Those things are not the only ways in which men express sexism. jfc.

You're so fucking THICK, I just can't. It's like talking to a brick fucking wall and about as intelligent, trying to get through to you people.

(Anonymous) 2012-04-15 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
And you're an incredibly rude, immature, nasty individual who is so blinded by what isn't that that you're willing to lash out at people who talk to you.

No one listens to someone like that. Kindly fuck off. ♥

[identity profile] curseangel.livejournal.com 2012-04-15 05:04 am (UTC)(link)
And you're a sexist, judgmental asshole who has blinders on about eight inches thick. I don't give a fuck about your sexist, derailing, silencing "you got angry, now no one will listen to you!" bullshit. Why don't you just run along and play now, cowardly anon jackass? <3

(Anonymous) 2012-04-14 06:28 pm (UTC)(link)
DA.

What? How is Dean misogynistic? Because he flirts and sleeps with girls? Because from where I'm standing, most of the girls look just as eager to flirt and jump into bed with him.

Newsflash, misogyny is the hatred and demeaning of woman. Does Dean hate women? No. Does he demean them? No. Does he feel that they're inferior to him? NO. So then how can he possible be a misogynist? Because he flirts and leers? Guess what? I flirt and leer, too! Am I sexist and misandristic towards men for doing so?

The only women in the series who Dean trashtalks are gender-neutral DEMONS or women like Bela who have robbed him, got him into serious trouble, shot his brother, nearly caused his death, and etc. I find it hilarious how she does all that shit to him and no one blinks an eye, but then he goes around and calls her a bitch and suddenly he's a grade-A asshole.

[identity profile] curseangel.livejournal.com 2012-04-14 10:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Because he OBJECTIFIES WOMEN, USES SEXIST SLURS, TALKS DOWN TO AND DEMEANS WOMEN, etc. etc. I could go on and on all fucking day long here but I've got plans.

Hating and demeaning women outright and intentionally IS NOT ALL THERE IS TO SEXISM. If you think that, you're an idiot. I'm sorry, plain and simple, you are.

He still uses sexist slurs. Against WOMEN, most of the time. He uses them against demons while they're inhabiting female bodies. He uses them against Bela, who is a bad person but NO ONE DESERVES TO HAVE SLURS USED AGAINST THEM EVER. EVER. And that makes him a fucking asshole.

(Anonymous) 2012-04-15 02:13 pm (UTC)(link)
NA Since you seem to be in the mood for it, answer me this question: why do you have icons from sexist works such as Saiyuki and BBC's Sherlock? Oh, maybe because mansex is kawaiii uguu so if there are slashable guys for you it's automatically OK? Not to mention that those shows are also ~problematic~ in other ways as well, so how come that a champion of justice such as yourself uses icons from those shows?

And please, refrain from speaking up for women and for people who suffer from mental conditions in the future. I assume that you are also a woman who suffers from poor mental health, but you are not our spokesman and we have enough problems without you stirring shit up.

[identity profile] curseangel.livejournal.com 2012-04-15 04:11 pm (UTC)(link)
lol. As I said in another comment, which you apparently did not care to read, I believe that it is perfectly alright to enjoy and watch problematic media, BUT the important part is to recognize and act/speak against the problematic content (read: DON'T IGNORE IT AND MAKE EXCUSES FOR IT). I have made extensive comments, essays, etc. on the sexism in Sherlock and how and why it is sexist / how and why that's a bad thing. (I don't really consider Saiyuki to be very sexist -- certainly not to the point of Supernatural -- but it does have a lack of female characters who aren't one-shots. Then again, it has.. a lack of characters, period, who aren't one-shots due to the nature of the show. Also, I got into the show and manga when I was about fourteen, so yeah.)

(ETA: Do you really think accusing me of being a slash writer is going to what, bring me to my knees and make me beg forgiveness for being a ~bad feminist or something? Yeah, I write slash. With both men and women. I also write het on occasion! And I'm, uh, a lesbian, so how about you step the fuck off this kink-shaming bullshit?)

Oh yeah, and fuck you for the second paragraph. I'll speak as I'd like, you derailing, condescending asshole. Like I believe for a second that you didn't mean "a woman who suffers from poor mental health" as an insult. Bite me.
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[identity profile] valenciapilgrim.livejournal.com 2012-04-15 03:50 am (UTC)(link)
I am not trying to be disrespectful - I am honestly curious as to why you continue to watch a show that you find so abhorrent?

[identity profile] curseangel.livejournal.com 2012-04-15 05:09 am (UTC)(link)
I don't.

I officially stopped watching Supernatural after "The Slice Girls." The sexism in that episode is the worst I have EVER seen in the show (which is really saying something) and it literally made me ill. I had pretty much given up on it long before then, but continued to watch the odd episode and keep up on summaries of what I didn't see. I saw "The Slice Girls" because I fucking love Amazons. Yeah. Went well for me.

Also, I don't think it's necessarily "abhorrent." I've never said people should never watch anything involving misogyny ever. It would be impossible, there'd be nothing to watch. BUT it is REALLY important to acknowledge the issues in media and argue/lobby against -isms in media to the creators. Supernatural fandom, unfortunately, is especially adept at supporting -isms in the show and defending them, which is what really grosses me out.

I mean, just imagine if the fandom had written in and petitioned in SUPPORT of Jo instead of begging them to kill her off because she ~dared to look at Dean Winchester and like what she saw. Hell, imagine the same for any of the female characters in the show. Imagine if someone wrote in and asked them to maybe stop throwing around sexist slurs all the time -- more people would be comfortable watching the show, and that's good, right? It goes on. The show would be better, the fandom would be better, if the sexism was out of it. But that'll never happen because of people like the ones in this thread who defend and make excuses for sexism and/or play willfully ignorant about it. So the show will keep being sexist, the fandom will keep being sexist, and basically it'll keep driving people off.

(Anonymous) 2012-04-15 11:36 am (UTC)(link)
I am quite glad it drove you off, as you seem to have a level of hatred for it that is severely irritating to the rest of the world. If your goal is to educate others about the problematic parts of Supernatural, it would help if you weren't screaming in all caps.

[identity profile] curseangel.livejournal.com 2012-04-15 04:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh, look, more derailing (http://birdofparadox.wordpress.com/derailing-for-dummies-google-cache-reconstruction/#notlistening), why am I not surprised?

You have a level of idiocy that is severely irritating to the rest of the world, so why don't you gtfo? <3

(Anonymous) 2012-04-15 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
Thank you.