[ SECRET POST #1958 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1958 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 104 secrets from Secret Submission Post #280.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom.livejournal.com]

15. http://i.imgur.com/Wyq0C.jpg

[themapleleafrag.livejournal.com]

Your experience is a little similar to what I'm dealing with. I can't participate in a certain band fandom anymore because of two ex-friends (who are kind of BNFs) and the paranoia was/is so much that I left that community, deleted my old LJ, and I'm close to leaving the fandom as well because now I'm having issues with yet another person.

I wish I could offer you some good advice.

[(Anonymous)]

I've been in that exact same situation before, and really, it's hard to see it while you're in it...but it goes away. I had one friend in particular that was just SUPER clingy and felt like she was stealing my identity almost...but eventually, she moved the hell on and carried on with her life and got her own set of crap she enjoys. I may just be an issue of growing up, or finding their own identity, and don't forget...in a least some small way this person obviously looks up to you.

[(Anonymous)]

Wow, kind of self-centered much? Why would she be stalking you; is she not allowed to like things you do? I've easily gone from "wow that's stupid" to suddenly being interested when presented with a compelling reason.

Get over it.

[(Anonymous)]

I think OP's main issue here is that their ex-friend is popping up literally everywhere they go. "Oh hey, a new thing I just started liking! I'ma do a quick check because I'm paranoid.... nope, no where to be found, not on this blog, or that fansite or anywhere I can find, really! I'll comment here." *three days later* "Annnnd now she's here. Again." That, on repeat, is what I think the OP was implying is going on. And that, actually, WOULD be grounds for stalking accusations if it has happened many times in unrelated fandoms/places.

[(Anonymous)]

OP: Pretty much this, thanks for understanding, anon :( /bad explaining skills without getting overly specific

[hiyami.livejournal.com]

Don't worry, your explaining skills are fine, it's just that first anon's reading skills that failed.
I understood the way previous anon did.

I can see both cases happening (eg people feeling stalked while it was just coincidences because they stuck in the same fandom and it got narrow, and people feeling stalked because they *are*. Fandom friends can become creepy and clingy).

But if your ex-friend pops up in every corner of the new places you found right after you get into it, it's legitimate to feel suspicious.

[(Anonymous)]

what if she is stalking you???
and she lurrves you! and she's never gonna give you up, never gonna let you down, never gonna run around and desert you, never gonna say goodbye, never gonna tell a lie and hurt you!
tell me, are you strangers to love?

[cherrycoloured.livejournal.com]

OT, but where is that picture from? It's so cute :3

[(Anonymous)]

It's from an etsy shop "boygirlparty". The owner makes all these really cute animal themed things :)

[dentedsky.livejournal.com]

Maybe she still loves you ="(

[drunken-clowns.livejournal.com]

She sounds creepy, OP.

Have you thought about getting a new username? You can tell your new fandom friends about it if you want, but that way at least she won't be able to tell it's you, unless you have a super distinct drawing style or something.