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⌈ Secret Post #1984 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Little Shop of Horrors]

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[Sherlock BBC]

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[sort of porny and possible underage; photomanip, Snape/Hermione]

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[Let the Right One In/Låt den rätte komma in]

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[Parasyte]

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20. [TRIGGER WARNING for pedophilia]
http://i48.tinypic.com/24vi3ki.jpg
[Let the Right One In/Låt den rätte komma in]

Get... help, then?

If you can find an anonymous solution (a support internet community, maybe?) go for that.

Don't try to normalize it or encourage it by justifying it to yourself, or by seeking out other people who feel the same way. That will only make it harder to stop.

If it's just about one fictional character and the OP feels no urges to have sex with actual 11-year-olds, then who cares.

I don't want to start the same old dance and song that pops up whenever the "but they're fictional / think of the fictional children" argument starts, but this is an actual real life child, not just a drawing.

(And I would argue that, even if "they're only drawings", that's still trying to normalize the idea of pedophilia, intentionally or not. Plus porn drawings used to groom children by real pedophiles, blah blah blah.)

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(Anonymous) - 2012-06-09 00:02 (UTC) - Expand

(Anonymous) - 2012-06-09 00:08 (UTC) - Expand

I also think it really depends on how old OP is - if they're 15 they might still be identifying with younger people themselves, and there objectively isn't that much difference. They might still grow out of it/not be a pedophile.

If they're 30, it's probably another story.

first anon

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(Anonymous) - 2012-06-09 16:24 (UTC) - Expand

i have sexual fantasies about lina, but she's i think 16/17 now. is that okay? since women were allowed to lust after taylor lautner when he was around the same age.

"since women were allowed"

And that that double standard is allowed sickens me.

Anyone is "allowed" to lust after whoever, the problem is that it wasn't considered as disgusting as it really is.

kallanda_lee - 2012-06-09 00:38 (UTC) - Expand

I seem to recall a lot of older men lusting after younger starlets like the Olsen twins, Miley Cyrus, and Emma Watson before they turned 18.

(Anonymous) - 2012-06-09 01:35 (UTC) - Expand

Age of consent in her country (Sweden) is 15. Americans are puritanical when it comes to sex.

It's not just Americans. Also I cringe back on how terrible our decisions were back at 15 and how ~mature~ and ~adult; other people don't understand~ we thought we were.

The age of consent in most US states is only a year above that, 16, so I'm not sure what you're trying to say. Besides that, consent isn't about puritanism anyway.

(Anonymous) - 2012-06-09 04:08 (UTC) - Expand

What's your point? The secret says the kid's age is 11.

(Anonymous) - 2012-06-09 02:21 (UTC) - Expand

Judgmental much? Nice assumption that everyone who finds an issue with it is American.

If this is a real life thing, like, you see kids in the street and have sexual urges, get help right away. Otherwise...well, if they're just fantasties, it's not hurting anybody, is it?

I read some fanfiction and there was a 12 year old involved...and I found it incredibly hot. But it was just fanfiction,FICTION, not hurting anybody. I was sexually abused as a child, and I have no desire for RL kids...it sickens me.

tl;dr just having fantasies never hurt anybody.

No... They're just fantasies, I would never want to harm a child for real. :(

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(Anonymous) - 2012-06-09 17:09 (UTC) - Expand

This is kind of funny given that a major character in the novel is a pedophile and much of his inner thoughts are about how he lusts after children.

Read the book. That should frighten away whatever thoughts you may ever have of acting on pedophile urges.

(Sorry, it was the first thing I thought of saying. In seriousness, I agree with what others above me have said. As long as you're sure you're not actually going to do anything... eh)

Oh god Hakan's scenes in the book made me want to take a shower.

(Anonymous) - 2012-06-09 00:07 (UTC) - Expand

As the OP here, I've actually read the book in translation and in its original Swedish version.

I gotta say, yeah, Hakan's scenes were pretty gross. Yay for double standards.

It's still an excellent read in my opinion.