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fandomsecrets2012-06-08 06:38 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-06-08 06:38 pm
[ SECRET POST #1984 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1984 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Little Shop of Horrors]
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[Sherlock BBC]
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15. http://i.imgur.com/Jxlnf.png
[sort of porny and possible underage; photomanip, Snape/Hermione]
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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
16. [SPOILER WARNING for Arrested Development]
[TRIGGER WARNING for incest]
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19. [TRIGGER WARNING for sexual violence, rape, coercion, cult like mentalities, and violence]
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[Let the Right One In/Låt den rätte komma in]
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21. [TRIGGER WARNING for body horror, gore]
[Parasyte]
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22. [TRIGGER WARNING for abuse]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #283.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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The only therapist that would think of you as 'weird' and allow you to think they think that is one that deserves a steel-toed boot to the ass. Therapists are (or if they're not they should be in my very much NOT humble opinion because fuck humble I am RIGHTEOUSLY ANGRY right now) trained in being there for people, to help people work through the knotted intricacies of their minds and come out functional, stable, and able to think of themselves as WORTHY. Which, incidentally, YOU ARE. You always are.
I don't know how much this will help, but let it be known that there is at least one person on this earth who gives a damn about lost and lonely strangers. I care. I will give you every single e-hug I can type and then my fingers shall fall off and I will glue them back on and keep going because YOU DESERVE THEM.
Have I mentioned you deserve love? Because you do. The Doctor would agree.
<3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 <3
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OP, please look into a therapist. He or she can give you tools to help combat the negative image, the negative self-talk, and to help you figure out what steps you might want to take. They can help you decide what to say to your folks and how to say it, how to set boundaries with your husband, and where to get help if the situation isn't one where it makes sense to work through the issues with your husband and/or parents so that you could live with them.
Good therapists are life-changing, literally. I wish you all the best. If you have insurance, look on the back for a number to call to get mental health referrals, and see who might be in network (much cheaper).