[ SECRET POST #2003 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2003 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 040 secrets from Secret Submission Post #286.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I ship this secret with the CEO one from before

[(Anonymous)]

New OTP.

[(Anonymous)]

We should start something to get them together :D

[(Anonymous)]

That would be cute. Age gap be damned.

[insanenoodlyguy]

Fuck No. CEO deserves better then this nut.

Look, people who want these kindsa relationships don't have one in real life for a reason. They want a relationship which is at it's core unhealthy, and are unsatified if that relationship turns out, surprise, UNHEALTHY. It only works in fiction.

More often, the relationship they can have falls short of their ludricious ideals and so they end it. Bear in mind this guy wants an obsessive relationship even he admits is not good. He won't be happy with a down to earth cool guy like CEO, not happy at all. Then they both end up sad.

[(Anonymous)]

What about it is necessarily, unto itself, unhealthy? Nothing that I see. If two mature, sane, loving individuals want this out of their relationship, there isn't anything wrong that I can see. I think the worst you can say is a risk of raising kids with warped views on couple dynamics--but that doesn't necessarily reflect upon OP and his phantom boyfriend.

The problem with Twilight is that he exercises abusive attitudes towards her--things she actively does not like, that take it a step beyond someone loving being cared for, to someone whose rights and wants as a person are being ignored in a supposedly equal relationship.

[insanenoodlyguy]

Yet that's the relationship OP wants. They specifically said they wanted something they know intellectually is unhealthy.

[(Anonymous)]

People pop up all the time on FS saying how they think liking BDSM is unhealthy, about how that makes them a bad feminist, or any other manner of "this thing isn't socially acceptable, and it is therefore unhealthy". And FS often tells them they're perfectly healthy, it's just society's outlook that isn't.

Just because OP thinks it's unhealthy doesn't mean that actual relationship is or would be. He might just not understand what exactly makes relationships unhealthy.

[insanenoodlyguy]

If it's based off twilight? When an emotionally and physically controlling stalker so unstable he's ready to kill himself if you arent with him dates somebody who risks getting injured and raped just to think about you again and otherwise descends into a comatose state of blah? And all of this not a forged passion from realizing your a perfect fit, but some love at first fucking sight shit where they may as well get married tomorrow cause nobody else will ever do for either?

The bdsm component is secondary. I think OP's right about it being unhealthy. They want that kinda intense passion but forgot that too much of anything is bad.

Co-dependence is NEVER a good thing.

[(Anonymous)]

DA

Except that those obsessive relationships are unhealthy. Period.

There is a difference between a sexual practice that seeks to be Safe, Sane, and Consensual - aka BDSM; and the obsessive relationship the OP wants. There are many studies done about these types of relationships that show it is unhealthy. This is not a time when 'oh mainstream just thinks it's wrong but it's just not for everyone'. It is wrong.

It is an unhealthy relationship for both participants in an emotional, mental, and many times physical/sexual way.

[diet_poison]

omg, best comment.