[ SECRET POST #2025 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2025 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Pokemon Special]


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[Avengers/Thor]

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[CSI: Miami]


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[Two Men in a Trench]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 024 secrets from Secret Submission Post #289.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom]

19. http://i.imgur.com/lxBjW.jpg

[(Anonymous)]

Yes. And that book is poorly written Twilight fanfiction too.

I'm not sure if you're a troll or not, though.

[insanenoodlyguy]

It really is. Figure out (or get somebody to help you figure out) what your damage is before you throw yourself at the next lunatic that comes your way.

[(Anonymous)]

It saddens me to know I agree with you. I thought I was over it but... no.

[elaminator]

D: I'm sorry OP. I hope one day you'll be content with your life as is, and won't desire that type of relationship anymore.

[unicornherds]

This makes me sad. :( I hope you find help or whatever it is you need to not make the fall back into a traumatic or destructive relationship.

[(Anonymous)]

But all women want this though. Secretly.

[(Anonymous)]

That's what the Hatedom seems to think.

[diet_poison]

The hatedom for the book? I thought a huge part of the point of the hatedom was that women *don't* all want that and it was perpetuating that stereotype

(at least that's why I dislike it, or at least, dislike the type of publicity it's getting)

[(Anonymous)]

Here you go:

http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/70358230.html?thread=12295190230#t12295190230

http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/70358230.html?thread=12295137750#t12295137750

http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/70358230.html?thread=12295339734#t12295339734

http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/70358230.html?thread=12295435734#t12295435734

http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/70358230.html?thread=12295505878#t12295505878

http://ohnotheydidnt.livejournal.com/70358230.html?thread=12295294422#t12295294422

Never mind that the woman could have bought the book to read it out of guilty pleasure or because a friend recommended it.

[(Anonymous)]

They just have shitty taste

[diet_poison]

Not sure what the point is? That some people are jerks? because I mean, yeah

[(Anonymous)]

Yes some people are jerks who victim blame.

[diet_poison]

Yeah. True. That's not news or anything though

[diet_poison]

...you're sure you don't want to be the sub in a less destructive relationship?

Honestly curious.

[(Anonymous)]

It was more the person I was with. I'm still attracted to them other d/s relationships just didn't have the same excitement or satisfaction.

Whilst I miss this one relationship to the point of insanity I really don't want to mess up the life I have right now. I've managed to hold a job and rely on myself instead of someone else supporting me and telling me what decisions to make.

I guess I just wanted to vent about it anonymously.
Thanks for the constructive comments everyone.

[diet_poison]

That's good, I'm glad you're focusing on living a healthy, abuse-free life :)

[countess_k]

At least you acknowledge that the relationship in this book is a destructive one. That's a leg up over those clueless readers who think it's standard BDSM.

[grammarie]

+1

OP, if you're not a troll, please go look for a respectful dom, it sounds like that's what you need in your sex life. There might not be many of them, but they do exist. Try Fetlife.

[citrinesunset]

I don't know the details of your situation or if I'm reading this secret correctly, so I could be off-base, but maybe what you want is just to be in a D/s relationship again.

I don't know if you've had other, healthier D/s relationships since your dysfunctional one, but if you haven't, and kink is important to you, then something big might be missing. It makes some sense to start wondering if the dysfunction was worth it to have something you wanted, or if it's part of what you want to begin with. But it's worth finding someone who's a good fit for you and whom you can have a healthy relationship with. You shouldn't need to be in an unhealthy relationship to have your emotional and sexual needs fulfilled.

[nyxelestia]

Based on an above comment, it sounds like the OP was in a BDSM relationship that wasn't TPE/(D/s) or wasn't supposed to be, but became one.

OP, if I'm presuming too much, feel free to correct me. If not: there are Total Power Exchange relationships and 24/7 D/s relationships that are healthy (it sounds like, from your previous comment, you were in an unhealthy TPE or 24/7 D/s relationship. Try taking a look at the differences between the bad relationship you had and other similar relationships that you feel don't fulfill you. Zero in on/list out those differences, and maybe see if you can find a way to work those into a healthy relationship.