[ SECRET POST #2044 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2044 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Yamato nadeshiko Shichi Henge/Perfect Girl Evolution]


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03.
[Suits]


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04.
[A Song of Ice and Fire]


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05.
[Yamato nadeshiko Shichi Henge]


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[Sherlock BBC]


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07.
[Homestuck]


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08.
[Sherlock]


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09.
[Stargate Atlantis]


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10.
[Cyborg 009]


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[The Amazing Spiderman]


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12.
[Stargate Universe]


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[Avatar: the Last Airbender]


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[Bunheads/Game of Thrones]


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15.
[thesyndicateproject (youtube)]


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16.
[Codex Alera]


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17.
[Wishbone]


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18.
[The Game OverThinker]


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19.
[K-ON!]


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20.
[Magical Diary]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 063 secrets from Secret Submission Post #292.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fenm]

Cumberbatch was the one who said, "Sherlock was asexual until he met Irene". He also earlier (during S1) said "He's asexual... I think he was burned by a woman". Cuz being "burned" by a love interest is what makes you asexual, right? And meeting the right woman (and of course it's a woman...) makes you sexual again. Jesus... Seriously, replace "asexual" with "gay" in both those sentences, and you'll see just how ridiculous those statements are. BTW, this is why I don't read interviews from him anymore.

Seriously, as annoying as Moffat's views on asexuality are, at least he seems to understand that it's an orientation*, and not just something that happens to people when they the have relationship problems, and can be "dropped" when the right person shows up.

*Before anyone brings it, up, no he did not use the term "the choice of an asexual". In context:

"It’s the choice of a monk, not the choice of an asexual."

I read this to mean: A monk chooses not to have sex, an asexual doesn't. Of course, this is wrong, some asexuals do have sex. But again, at least he seems to understand being asexual isn't a choice.

[(Anonymous)]

I think he might have meant "abstinent". A lot of people think asexual just means you don't have sex, rather than it bean an orientation of sorts. I would be surprised if anyone irl who wasn't on the internet a lot really knew much about asexuality.

[fenm]

That could be, but that's not the word he used. And it's not like "abstinent" is a new or unusual term; if anything, it seems like someone would be far more likely to use than "asexual".

[(Anonymous)]

nayrt

A lot of people think of "asexuality" as referring to things like amoebas and shit. Before I heard people talking about it on the internet a few years ago, I never would have thought someone would call themselves asexual. It initially seemed very strange to me until I researched it further

[(Anonymous)]

sa

Wait nevermind, I misread your comment

ignoooore meeeee

[fenm]

Hee. Okay. (-:

[(Anonymous)]

Asexuals reproduce by fissioning!

[insanenoodlyguy]

No wonder the internet has so many!

[cashay]

This is why I avoid reading stuff about actors as well =/

[(Anonymous)]

It's really not worth getting butthurt over. The construction of asexual is problematic as it seems to mean both "not interested in sex" and "not participating in sex". It would be the same as if you said "not sexual". Asexual was very poorly coined.

Cumberbatch most likely meant grey-a but didn't know how to express that. He clearly understands the no interest in sex part but is unlikely to be aware that asexuals can experience sexual attraction, which you seem to be unaware of as well. So, yeah, you're kind of a bigot yourself.

And meeting the right woman (and of course it's a woman...)

Seriously? Are you even familiar with ACD canon? Irene's always been a woman and always had a unique relationship with the misogynistic Sherlock.

[fenm]

He clearly understands the no interest in sex part but is unlikely to be aware that asexuals can experience sexual attraction

But he didn't say Sherlock is an asexual who found himself experiencing sexual attraction; he say he was asexual UNTIL he met Irene. Imagine if Ben said, "Sherlock was gay until he met
Irene". Not, "He met Irene and started questioning his sexuality", just "he was gay until..."

which you seem to be unaware of as well.

I know asexuals can experience sexual attractions. But that's not what Ben said.

Irene's always been a woman

Yeah, no shit. I mean, of course Ben said it was meeting a woman that awakened his sexuality, and not, say, John. Or, hell, even Moriarty. But, no, of course Sherlock is straight.

[(Anonymous)]

You really seem to be fishing for ways to turn this into deliberate acephobia and not a very easy mistake. If Cumberbatch is unaware that grey-A exists, it stands to reason that he would think Sherlock's interest in Irene means that Sherlock had to depart from asexuality to be interested. Sherlock's interest in Irene is canon. Just because Sherlock and John's relationship is homoerotic as hell doesn't mean there's any sexual interest on Sherlock's part. Are you calling ACD a bigot? I really don't understand what you think you're trying to say.

I hear this same shit with bisexuality all the time. "She went lesbian" or "He was straight until he met him". Both examples are bisexual, but a lot of people see it as an abrupt change rather than a shift along a spectrum. It's the way people understand sexuality because they don't know any better. Asexuality's name makes this an easy mistake, so I don't see why you're all flustered about this. It's not like some sexualities where you can look at the name and immediately know what the meaning is.

[fenm]

You really seem to be fishing for ways to turn this into deliberate acephobia and not a very easy mistake

I don't think it's outright bigotry, I think it is, as you say, ignorance.

he would think Sherlock's interest in Irene means that Sherlock had to depart from asexuality to be interested.

Right, that's true.

Really, ultimately, my point is this: People sometimes use Cumberbatch's comments that Sherlock's not asexual to bolster their claim that he's not (you can see examples of it in this very tread). But if Cumberbatch doesn't even understand what asexuality is, why should I take his word?

Are you calling ACD a bigot?

Where are you even getting that from?

Sherlock's interest in Irene is canon.

Interest her intellect, yes. But if you're referring to ACD canon, it's explicitly stated he wasn't in love with her.

[tweedisgood]

Sherlock's interest in Irene may be canon, Holmes' interest in her is not. ACD quite specifically says that Holmes was NOT romantically interested in Irene Adler. So kindly leave ACD out of it.

[fenm]

And even though Sherlock's interest in Irene may be canon, there's nothing overtly sexual about it. It could easily be the same "interest in her intellect" as in ACD canon.

[(Anonymous)]

Right. It sounds to me like he's saying "He didn't consider having sex with anyone until he met her." He didn't say abstinent or celibate because it sounds like a choice to not act on sexual feelings, and he's saying he didn't have any to struggle with.

[(Anonymous)]

Re: Cumberbatch, I don't know why I'm surprised that he equates asexuality with, say, the choice to be redheaded or not on the day. Mind you, in the much lauded interview where he mentioned fanworks I swear he started to say 'that's disgusting' before he realised what a backlash that would cause and went all nicey nicey. Prat. I'd say he's been in Hollywood too long, but if he was saying things like that back in S1, well.

My two cents: it seems to be a matter of interpretation. What one person sees as asexuality another sees as celibate by choice and another sees as gay. My take: whatever he is, he isn't a Kinsey 0.

[(Anonymous)]

I don't blame him for finding it disgusting tbh. I probably would too if my fans were as batshit insane as some of his are