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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-13 03:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #2111 ]


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(Anonymous) 2012-10-13 07:48 pm (UTC)(link)
You have until at least you're Pierce's age, anon. Heck, you have until you're Leonard's age. There's no time limit on finding happiness.

(and yes, helping me remember this is one of the things I like Community for, too.)
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[personal profile] brightblueink 2012-10-13 08:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I think you're never too old to meet new people and find a place you "fit." :) Although I know what you mean, it's only recently that I found a group of friends that I always hang out with and do things with, so it was a relief when I found them!

(Anonymous) 2012-10-13 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
You have pretty much all your life to find that. I just hit 40 and I feel like I've only found (little by little) a set of friends from different places in the last 5 years or so...

There's been others, but people come and go, and long distance don't help, and even at work sometimes you find people you click with, though most of times you're relieved you don't have have to spend more time with them than working hours...
Really, never give up hope.
Good people you can get along with exist, they are out there. You just need to give people a chance. And also not stay stuck with others who might shoo away the nice ones.
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[personal profile] fickletastictot 2012-10-13 08:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I like that about Community. *sniffles*

(Anonymous) 2012-10-13 08:56 pm (UTC)(link)
I love Community for giving me hope too.

If only I could find the Abed that would invite me to their Jeff's study group. I'm not good at meeting people, and people don't usually approach me >_>

But I still have hope!

(Anonymous) 2012-10-13 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Abed-types aren't generally that hard to pick out of a crowd! And if you approach them, you are almost guaranteed not to be the more socially awkward one in that equation. That's how I've found some of my most fun friend groups: find the only person in the room who looks more awkward and alone than me, and go say hi.

(...just, be careful, because some socially awkward types are less Abed-awesome and more stalker-terrifying, you have to learn to spot the difference pretty quickly.)
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[personal profile] ooh_mrdarcy 2012-10-13 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)
The magical land of friendship isn't guarded by a ticking time bomb.
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[personal profile] cloud_riven 2012-10-13 09:08 pm (UTC)(link)
How do you know that OP won't explode from loneliness?
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[personal profile] ooh_mrdarcy 2012-10-13 11:03 pm (UTC)(link)
That's a different time bomb.
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[personal profile] cloud_riven 2012-10-13 09:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Haha I kind of feel the same?

My friends don't really know each other, and I'm not exactly familiar with any of their circle of friends since I tend to prefer to hang only with the person I like over a group of those I don't orz
I don't have the type of situation where we all know one another in some Venn diagram way :(

I think it would be very nice though, to have that kind of closeness/nakama you tend to see in sitcoms.

Oh yeah, and you have til Pierce's age, yo! Come on, let's beat both his and Jeff's record ♥

(Anonymous) 2012-10-13 10:46 pm (UTC)(link)
I know that this is not the point, but when did it say Jeff's age? o_O

(Anonymous) 2012-10-14 03:54 am (UTC)(link)
Anon, there isn't an arbitrary age limit for making friends. You have as long as the rest of your life to form as many meaningful relationships as you want. You don't have to stop until the day you die.

I know fandom runs a little young, but come on, guys. Getting older (even as ancient as your late 30s and beyond!) doesn't mean you enter some sort of braindead purgatory for geezers.
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[personal profile] la_petite_singe 2012-10-14 04:55 am (UTC)(link)
That is a good point. I didn't think of it like that, but that's true.

(Anonymous) 2012-10-14 06:04 am (UTC)(link)
I get what you mean, most heartfelt friendships portrayed in media begins when the characters are in their teens or 20s, and even when the characters are in their 30s or 40s, the friendships they had was formed back when they were young. It's rare enough to see friendships that begin when the characters are late in life that when you see it in shows like Community, it makes you realize that it's never too late for real, meaningful friendships.