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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-21 06:44 pm

[ SECRET POST #2180 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2180 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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[Fraiser]


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[Homestuck]


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[Kili/The Hobbit]


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09. [SPOILERS for the Walking Dead]



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10. [SPOILERS for How I Met Your Mother]



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11. [SPOILERS for Rise of the Guardians]



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12. [WARNING for abuse]



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13. [WARNING for rape, noncon]

[American Horror Story Asylum]


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14. [WARNING for rape]

[MLP: FiM]


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15. [WARNING for rape]

[Hallelujah by Leonard Cohen]


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16. [WARNING for suicide]

[Doctor Who]


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17. [WARNING for rape]



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18. [WARNING for IRL murder/shootings]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #311.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Why do I bother anymore?

(Anonymous) 2012-12-22 04:57 am (UTC)(link)
or so she claimed

Re: Why do I bother anymore?

(Anonymous) 2012-12-22 05:21 am (UTC)(link)
No. No, please, don't even go there.

Re: Why do I bother anymore?

(Anonymous) 2012-12-22 05:23 am (UTC)(link)
so we're just supposed to take her word for it

Re: Why do I bother anymore?

(Anonymous) 2012-12-22 05:29 am (UTC)(link)
Even if you don't, people who did take her word for it still defended him. That alone is massively fucked up.

Re: Why do I bother anymore?

(Anonymous) 2012-12-22 05:53 am (UTC)(link)
Considering this?

http://ic.pics.livejournal.com/bronysock/52298923/2558/2558_original.png

Yeah, I will take her word over his. The guy is trying to guilt-trip her over forcing her to give him a blowjob, and goes on and on about his pain over the lost relationship, and how he has needs and couldn't control himself, and blah blah blah. (Never mind that she was a minor here).

I'm not saying that there aren't false rape accusations out there, but I genuinely doubt they outnumber the genuine ones, and I sincerely doubt even more that this is a fake one.

And all things considered (how under-reported rape is, how women are often slut-shamed rather than helped, how men are shamed over their supposed lack of virility if they were the victim, etc.), I would rather give the benefit of the doubt to the victim, until more evidence pops up.

But of course, we actually do have more information in this one case, and it definitely does not paint the abuser under a good light.
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Re: Why do I bother anymore?

[personal profile] fuchsiascreams 2012-12-22 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Totally agree. In addition to that, the issue here with the bronies, from what I gather, was not even that they were accusing her of lying - it was that they were accusing her of being a slut. Which is like, what? So you accept that a girl was forced to do something sexual against her will, and you call her a slut for it? That is just beyond disgusting.
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Re: Why do I bother anymore?

[personal profile] fuchsiascreams 2012-12-22 09:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Wait, what? I must have read that wrong. Can someone explain this to me? I feel like I read this incorrectly. The impression I got from this was that they snuck out to meet each other, ended up having oral sex, and at some point she wanted to stop because she was scared of getting in trouble, and he forced her to keep going.. and his excuse is "BUT SHE USED TO HANG UP ON ME OVER THE PHONE, SO I GOT CONFUSED WHEN SHE ASKED ME TO STOP HAVING SEX WITH HER!".. and people are defending him? Am I reading this correctly? Is there a subtext that I'm missing, here?

Re: Why do I bother anymore?

(Anonymous) 2012-12-23 05:06 am (UTC)(link)
You read it correctly. That is exactly what happened. :(
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Re: Why do I bother anymore?

[personal profile] fuchsiascreams 2012-12-26 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Then what is the fucking problem? He raped her, period. How is this even a fucking issue?
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Re: Why do I bother anymore?

[personal profile] fuchsiascreams 2012-12-22 08:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Uh, yes? If someone says she was raped, then why would you NOT believe her? By the same logic, why would you just automatically take HIS word for it? Why would you start out by assuming that every single person who says they were raped is lying?
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Re: Why do I bother anymore?

[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-12-23 02:32 am (UTC)(link)
oh my fuck. You are trolling hardcore here, trying to stir that up.

also, it's not going to work because he fucking admitted to doing it SO...

>:C

Re: Why do I bother anymore?

(Anonymous) 2012-12-22 05:51 am (UTC)(link)
I'm pretty sure he admitted that he forced her into it, but used some piss-poor excuse for why it totally wasn't his fault.
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Re: Why do I bother anymore?

[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-12-23 02:33 am (UTC)(link)
Yep. I clicked on a bunch of the links that another anon posted about it and this is pretty much happened. "Yes, I bullied her into giving me a BJ, but you know I was just SO HORNY and she was being SO COY and even though she was obviously afraid and unhappy and saying she didn't wanted it SHE SO TOTALLY DID BECAUSE THAT'S HOW BITCHES ROLL. WAAAAAAAAH"

Re: Why do I bother anymore?

(Anonymous) 2012-12-22 05:51 am (UTC)(link)
you are fucking scum.